Well, I guess because many of us recognise that you instigate change through being an engaging, active participant and not through alienating yourself. That co-operation and collaboration achieve more than putting up a wall. The suggestion it was all or nothing was one of the biggest hoodwinks of the entire debacle.
We see the bias in the over influential and under scrutinised press, and understand the ulterior motives behind the lies, exaggerations and mistruths they print.
Many of us understand the complexities and imperfections of the EU, but equally we see greater issues, corruption and injustice in our own political and class system.
Most of us dont wish to sub-divide by our place of birth or language we speak (enough of that nonsense exists as it is), but instead look for the common ground in spite of any of these factors. We see that we have far more in common with economic migrants then we do with our privately educated, fortunate inheriting, wealth-hoarding banker overlords.
We also saw the opportunity and tremendous benefits of being in the union, and cant understand why people would want to throw that away instead of working towards a more mutually beneficial arrangement. No matter which way any of us voted, after we leave, we all have less freedoms, less rights, less protection