Of course context can have a big impact on the meaning on what is said.
However I think certain lines shouldn't be crossed as it excuses so much of the casual racism which causes a lot of misery.
Calling anyone a Paki belongs in a less enlightened time and I like to think that people are more aware today. With only the thick, ignorant and well, racist using terms like that. Argue and excuse it all you like if you want to.
Hauskitten, the fact that you gleefully labelled me a a PC ****er, "go **** yourself arsehole" because i made a lighthearted comment you didn't agree with, speaks more about you than anything comment I could make.
Don't know, and don't give a ****, why I'm suddenly the promoted to the PC brigade, quite hilarious really.
And kitty, puzzled about why you think i probably offend people everyday with what i say. I'd like to think I'm aware enough and intelligent enough that i don't.
It's not about being "PC", it's too lazy to dismiss my personally held beliefs by putting them in a box. It's about the standards I set myself as a person, about what i think is right and wrong. And calling someone a Paki, nigger, coon or any of the other classics will get you thrown out of my house everytime. It doesn't make me a bleeding heart liberal, it just means I've got principles.
I've gone PC mad!!!