To be fair - that was meant tongue in cheek and realised later it sounded a bit harsh ..... I should not really have put that so apols from the Pup....
On the back of this a good friend of mine has just decided to "trap" her bloke of 8 years as he will propose so she has decided to stop taking the pill and get pregnant "then he'll have to marry me - that'll teach him to stop making me hang on for that ring"
I can see the potential fall out from that one already, and I have lost a lot of respect for someone I thought was pretty clued up and pretty fair..........