Just on the herd immunity, there is now evidence that it might not be possible to achieve. Basically asymptomatic or people with very mild illness don't develop much of an antibody response. So while their immune system can clear the infection, without strong (and persistent) antibodies, it means their immune system can't stop them been re-infected.
So not a problem for them get it again and again, but means (and seems to be) likely to be infectious and risk for others.
Ways around this is a good vaccine (they tend to produce a stronger more consistent antibody response), which will protect those who've not had it and might get severe illness. Or it carries on mutating to be more mild and end up like the common cold (which is also a class of coronavirus)
Things to worry about are it mutating to something worse, and the evidence building that it damages other organs too (well the immune response is doing the damage, but get what I mean)
Let's hope we don't discover in few years all those young people who didn't care actually have a long term time bomb in them. (SARS they found long term issues few years down the road)
Ps: on less deaths, like you alluded to, it's due to less old people getting it. However hospitalization is running high in USA, so while not death figures not going up massively (yet), a lot of people in a bad way.