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Johnny Vodka said:
Better learning to accept it, Vic, and going with the flow, while trying to keep your body good naturally (healthy eating, exercise). Those constantly having plastic surgery are NOT happy (and end up looking freak-ish).
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Lucky i do all the above then ;) excercise lots and eat well :D

I just dont see anything wrong with a little cut and stitch here n there if needs be ;)
 
xxVic-zeexx said:
I just dont see anything wrong with a little cut and stitch here n there if needs be ;)
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Thing is, you'll want more and more of it and never be satisfied. Better to accept a changing body. It's in not understanding/realising/accepting that everything changes and in trying to hold on to things, keep things as they are that we experience Dukkha. ;)

I mean, does anyone think Cher looks good?
 
Crispy Duck said:
I must admit that they live by some very good values, just don't think I could live by them all the time :lol:
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It's not really about values - more about realising the nature of things before we start plastering reality with human concepts and where disappointment/frustration/angst spring from. Surely having plastic surgery to look younger is to be like a fish swimming upstream?
 
Johnny Vodka said:
Thing is, you'll want more and more of it and never be satisfied. Better to accept a changing body. It's in not understanding/realising/accepting that everything changes and in trying to hold on to things, keep things as they are that we experience Dukkha. ;)

I mean, does anyone think Cher looks good?
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Totally hear what you are saying and there are many views and opinions on the subject of plastic surgery....

For example - boob jobs - my sister felt like the most unattractive boy like female on the planet and would cry regularly over this personal 'body hang up' she had. If she knew anything about the NHS doing these sorts of procedures free then she would of been a prime candidate, i actually cried when she showed me :( all is well and good now and she looks more female :D

Already enhancing assets - 'Greed' in a nut shell

Can totally see how people would get addicted though but not all of us can live with what we have got and how are bodies are changing....unfortunately
 
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Unless there is something drastically wrong with you (which doesn't include the normal ageing process, but may include a disfigurement or a feature which causes you genuine distress), you should resist plastic surgery - not just for your sake, but for your fellow human beings. The trouble is now it's become so normalised.
 
Each to their own I say, some people have very low self esteem and if it makes them feel better then go for it, in an ideal world evryone would be happy with their lot
 
TBh, the worst problem with people's bodies usually isn't what they're naturally given but that they don't look after them. I'm no oil painting, but I try and make the best of what I have (although that still ain't getting me far - :lol: or :cry:?).
 
I spent a small, well medium, fortune on a brand new set of gnashers last year and I think they were worth every penny. I've started to see such things as like buying nice clothes to be honest.

I don't think I need anything done just yet, but I wouldnt rule out plastic surgery in the future
 
Johnny Vodka said:
TBh, the worst problem with people's bodies usually isn't what they're naturally given but that they don't look after them. I'm no oil painting, but I try and make the best of what I have (although that still ain't getting me far - :lol: or :cry:?).
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i'm no oil painting either thats why we have amazing personalities hahaha or thats what I tell myself anyway :lol:
 
This is what i dont understand or imo is in no way justifiable...

Some guy i was seeing from my gym, was all about looks - if anything that was the most important thing in his life - jst displayed to me after a while that he had massive insecurities..

He rented a house and was a bit thin on the ground with work at the time i was seeing him, so really needed to watch his pennies esp seeing as he had to pay RENT (hes 30 odd btw)....

He must of spent, in the region of a good 10K plus on a set of veneers :spank: (not sure how much they are tbh)

Now that is just STUPID on the highest level imo
 
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