Scoobie said:
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!
i do!! 8)
There are a lot of people on this board who are in relationships and still do those things, myself included
Me to
I think there are always times when it feels great to be single and have the freedom but there are also times when its nice to have someone and be in a relationship.
It depends on your lifestyle...
personally i do some things with my wife and some things without (as witnessed by many last weekend
) I like having that freedom and it works for us.
Other friends I have do everything together even work together but they are happy.
Going back to your point Chewie I think the hardest things in life is to meet your suitable match. Generally you meet people through work or friends or a hobby like sport. If you don't work in a large office type environment that cuts down your options straight away and if you only tend to socialise in a clubbing way(?) then again that can be difficult because I don't think its an atmosphere or state of mind to truely meet someone, ie I fell in love with about 3 people on Sat/Sun (or thought I did before landing back on planet reality

)
Not meaning to sound funny but you seemed a very decent guy to me and its personality that's most important, the issue is meeting people to chat to to put that strength accross.
Hope that all make sense