Left On The Shelf

dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

There are a lot of people on this board who are in relationships and still do those things, myself included ;)
 
Hello...I'm an on the shelf singleton too! 8O
Quite enjoying the selfish life so I have a feeling I may get confortable here for a while ;).
 
Fergie19 said:
I don't understand why you have to settle down and stay in when you become a couple...I know alot that do :?

Can be great fun going out with your partner, and its gerat to be out having a good time together

:oops: Right..thats my sensitive moment past :lol:

i dont wanna settle down... just date!

vjdub - when u over fella? bet its lovely n snowy in NYC!
 
Funny you should say that, I was having exactly the same conversation with someone the other day.
Dirty homosexuals never seem to date each other! In this town we're disposable items that are constantly up for review.
It doesn't help when you're a hopeful romantic like me (note the optimistic twist on hopeless)
I've actually set myself target to date at least one male by the end of Feb. However, progress remains to be seen :roll:.
 
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

Errr so do I and I'm 29 and being in relationship for nearly 6 years.
 
Fergie19 said:
Chewie,

There's literally millions of women out there. You just being lazy and not bothering? ;)

am trying. but sometimes its proving to be hardwork...

and when i do try, theyre not interested. and when i dont try, someone else beats me to it... :x
 
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

Its nice when you find a partner that enjoys to do this with you and you can experience it all together. We both enjoy the best of both worlds!!
 
mambobirdette said:
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

Its nice when you find a partner that enjoys to do this with you and you can experience it all together. We both enjoy the best of both worlds!!

tis what i want with a bit of luck, someone who doesnt sneer and think im a lower being cos i raid the "biscuit" tin occasionally. :lol:
 
Scoobie said:
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

There are a lot of people on this board who are in relationships and still do those things, myself included ;)

Me to :D

I think there are always times when it feels great to be single and have the freedom but there are also times when its nice to have someone and be in a relationship.

It depends on your lifestyle... personally i do some things with my wife and some things without (as witnessed by many last weekend ;) ) I like having that freedom and it works for us.
Other friends I have do everything together even work together but they are happy.

Going back to your point Chewie I think the hardest things in life is to meet your suitable match. Generally you meet people through work or friends or a hobby like sport. If you don't work in a large office type environment that cuts down your options straight away and if you only tend to socialise in a clubbing way(?) then again that can be difficult because I don't think its an atmosphere or state of mind to truely meet someone, ie I fell in love with about 3 people on Sat/Sun (or thought I did before landing back on planet reality :roll: )

Not meaning to sound funny but you seemed a very decent guy to me and its personality that's most important, the issue is meeting people to chat to to put that strength accross.

Hope that all make sense :)
 
What is your problem chewie if you don't mind me askin?I live in a small village where there is no one im interested in at all.The only time i really am around girls is in a club which is about once a month.I spend most of my time on the dancefloor but i don't really kow how to approach girls.Anytime i have pulled it has always been the girl that has made the first move.Anytime i have tried i never pull.
 
dj miley said:
hey guys!! look im 27 single....most my mates are coupled up......but do they get to go clubbing every weekend and go ibiza?? nope!!

i do!! 8)

Well I'm 35 (there you go Chewie, it's out!) and very nicely "coupled up". We do go to Ibiza and we do go clubbing most weekends either as a couple or with a group of friends.

It certainly doesn't change a thing :D
 
chewie_oo7 said:
Fergie19 said:
I don't understand why you have to settle down and stay in when you become a couple...I know alot that do :?

Can be great fun going out with your partner, and its gerat to be out having a good time together

:oops: Right..thats my sensitive moment past :lol:

i dont wanna settle down... just date!

vjdub - when u over fella? bet its lovely n snowy in NYC!

I want to come over for a big party, or festival. here's a few cm's of snow
 
Knifey_Spoony said:
I spend most of my time on the dancefloor but i don't really kow how to approach girls.Anytime i have pulled it has always been the girl that has made the first move.Anytime i have tried i never pull.

same ere.

i live in Harlow - population of about 80,000... most of whom never leave the town, and consider london to be too far to go for a night out and are always concerned about getting last train home -and are skint cos they got mortgages to pay yet can spend just as much on the razz. failing that we have a Liquid "nightclub" - in which Jade from Big Brother is a reg in the VIP bit (apprantly). is the picture im painting give you enough of an idea of what doesnt go on!

believe me, id love to put on a house night somewhere local, unfortunately, id doubt if id fill the place cos majority are into chart, rnshite round ere!

i like where i live as a place thats away from the busyness of london. shame getting people out is proving a nightmare. its gotten to the point i just ask once now.

rant over!

AND karen, youre a youthful looking 35 yr old. ;)
 
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