Buckley
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Twice now i have chucked guys for the 'physical side' of a relationship, two very diff reasons but a good enough reason for me to not want to be with them.
Too big and too small?
Twice now i have chucked guys for the 'physical side' of a relationship, two very diff reasons but a good enough reason for me to not want to be with them.
Too big and too small?
Am I the only one reading this with an ever increasing number of sarcy comments in my head, but so far demonstrating incredible restraint?
Too big and too small?
Yes I see what you are saying Blondie......I know a few friends who have done the same. Just became "best friends".
What about this though for a situation - colleague of mine says they have not slept with their partner since 2004 - they now have a kind of open relationship - well as in he does what he wants (I think)
I cant get my head round that?
Sorry should add they have children so that kind of keeps them together.
I cant understand any woman being happy to go without?
Have you managed to get your head your colleague's partner yet Em?
Sounds like the right thing for everyone concerned. People do it, don't they, stick with what they know and end up in a sexless LTR or marriage, but christ knows how. They're must be serious some self abuse or cheating going on by a couple of years in!
No not yet!
I just cant get why any woman would be happy with that.....
Bizarre
we lasted a long time without cheating (i'm pretty confident he didn't cheat anyway) but i was getting close so i left before i did something i regretted!
can't believe i stayed so long!!
Emma i dont get open relationships, cant see that relationship working! That being said i look at all the people i know in relationships and with the exception of people that have been together for 2 years or less they are all having problems some small, some def not small problems, so maybe looking at other ways to approach relationships isn't such a bad thing, not for me, no way but if it works for them?.............why not good luck to them
Good year. Bought ace house, got missus pregnant, pay rise in work, new radiohead album.
2011 to date has been all round ace-ness
Started the year with return visit to Berghain/Panorama for my birthday - reinforced my belief that Panorama Bar is the best club in the world EVER. I don't even bother with Ibiza anymore as clubbing in Berlin wipes the floor with it
Went from an 18 hour clubbing sesh in Panorama to 10 weeks of absinence from alcohol and everything else while training for the marathon - I tend to do things to extremes
April I ran Brighton Marathon in 4 hours 29 mins, so proud of myself that this ex-fag-ash-Lil-wino can run a marathon and in a fairly decent time
Then went straight from running to 3 weeks in America - firstly for a friend's gorgeous wedding in South California and then a bit of roadtrip - absolutely LOVED it all with the exception of Vegas (awful), favourite bits were the National Parks - Yosemite, Grand Canyon and Death Valley are some of the most stunning places I've ever visited - oh and American beer is bloody fantastic. GodblessAmerica
And while all that was going on we put our house in London on the market at the end of January, sold it and bought a house in Brighton and as of the end of May we are now Brighton residents - absolutely love it here, I've got THE best vintage shops, vegetarian food until it's coming out my ears, (proper) pubs galore, people are just so friendly and it's all a bit less of a rat race than London.
Happy Days
The national parks are great, I'm glad you enjoyed them. Yosemite is my favorite.
Yosemite was our favourite too - absolutely breathtaking beautiful I'd been to the States a couple of times before (New York like everyone does and a month in California when I was younger) but this was the first time I felt I really explored (albeit a tiny bit of) your country and it totally blew me away.
And I am now addicted to Blue Moon