What got me thinking was when I was on the island in 2005 I see a geezer at our hotel in his early 50's with a younger woman who was about 31-2ish and they had a kid

.... I'd been thinking about the idea of fatherhood quite a bit before then and my thoughts towards it all had started to change somewhat. I remember thinking that there is no way I want to be a first time dad at 50 odd.
I can recall loadsa times on my holidays seeing parents looking miserable as funk with their kids and thought " No way, thats not for me"
But then in 2005 in ibiza something clicked with it all

, I was in the middle of it all at Bossa and for the first time ever I just couldn't be bothered with clubbing

. Couple that with my thoughts on that fella I see and I started warming to the idea more and more

.
You just click with it all, its a polarized experience in terms of your time and you enjoy your free time more as well as the time with your child.8)8)8)
Ive been "avin it" on and off for 17 years now since it all kicked off so for me the time was right and I feel lucky to be able to say that because I know there are a lot of couples that struggle to have kids and then you get the women that get lumped on their own to do it all for themselves.
As for Ibiza, I'll definitely be back for more knees ups and all that8). Its just not as big on my "To Do" list anymore.8)