I didn't really
want kids, but always assumed "one day". Unfortunately I never seemed to get that feeling I was ready to have children. My issue was that I was too selfish with my time, and couldn't see room to fit anything else in without sacrificing some "lifestyle".
In Ibiza 2004 outside Cafe Mambo, Mrs Jam reminded me that I was already past 30, and if I was serious about having a family, how old exactly did I want to be?
A few drinks and around 9 Months later, Mini Jam I was born (middle name Antoni

)
First to admit I struggled for over a year with the change in life, but now there's 2 of them, and I'm glad we had them.
In summary - she was right (as usual).