Haha thanks for your concern. It has always been that I'd never move without her. But I'm getting more and more bored with the life in UK. Do you think I could go over start of season. Find a restaurant/bar that's open all year and potentially be kept on? Obviously I know it will be part time in winter. I've been mulling over going before season next year. Thus giving me enough time to save more/learn Spanish/take my driving test. I obviously care for my woman but I fear if I don't do something soon and before I know it I'll be middle aged and bitter against her and the world cause I never grew the balls to take the leap. How old are your kids? Could you not take them with you?