Bez you are being way too charitable with your comments!
It wouldn't have taken long to understand what the problems are and have a word with security and ask them to tone it down... it could have been fixed the first week the hotel opened.
I actually think the management want this type of atmosphere about the place. Perhaps they think it makes it feel "exclusive" in some way!
From the reports and recent events it is getting worse not better....
Some of the rules I saw being RUDELY enforced by the staff in the 4 hours I was there....
not being able to bring someone who has paid to enter the party to a guests room to see what they were like (e.g. a potential guest)
not being able to walk across half the pool area as its roped off for VIP (despite it being totally empty)
not being able to go in the pool when its a pool party (unless you are a model in which case ok no problem)
not being able to sit on floor around pool area (we were very rudely asked to stand up!) when there is nowhere else to sit unless you pay stupid money for a bed
not being allowed out and back in to visit the bank despite having a wristband - surely for a day pool party its not such a big deal (bar token booth didnt take cards, spent 100 euro in 2 hours!)
The staff are more interested in standing around posing/pouting/looking moody than providing whichever service they are supposed to be providing
anyway rant over
90% percent of the people can't be wrong or have an ax to grind. I have never heard of a hotel that would refuse to let you have guest in your room who is not staying in the hotel.