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Fergie19 said:Chewie, I really need the money just now. She was supposed to give me it todayi know its a trivial matter, but I'm so hurt just now.
Anyway, i have lots of her new clothes at mine....bonfire anyone?
get thru the week, come down to buckleys boat and sort things out with a clearer head next monday.
im on msn if u need.
Think id prefer to throw them away
How can someone hurt the person their supposed to love? Guess it could be an age thing, but everyone I've spoken to has said she's pulled the wool over all of our eyes
I really am going to have trust problems from now on...my dad did exactly the same thing then vanished as well
How can someone hurt the person their supposed to love? Guess it could be an age thing, but everyone I've spoken to has said she's pulled the wool over all of our eyes
I really am going to have trust problems from now on...my dad did exactly the same thing then vanished as well
mambobirdette
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Yes, go get yourself laid! 
:x 
glasgow-chick
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Poor you Andrew, so sorry to hear that. 
She sounds to me like a silly wee girl and you are well rid of her. She'll regret it one day when someone does the same thing to her and she'll realise she messed up a really good relationship with you.
You'll feel better once your friends are back. Best thing is not to spend too much time alone, organise nights out and keep yourself busy and find things to look forward to. Will just take you a bit of time but you'll get there.
She sounds to me like a silly wee girl and you are well rid of her. She'll regret it one day when someone does the same thing to her and she'll realise she messed up a really good relationship with you.
You'll feel better once your friends are back. Best thing is not to spend too much time alone, organise nights out and keep yourself busy and find things to look forward to. Will just take you a bit of time but you'll get there.
Cheers guys,
All my mates and family here just now have been on the phone all day, and I've been out with my mum. My brothers girlfriend is making me dinner later.
My mum's even hurt by it all, she treated her like one of her own.
Laura, is this common behaviour of people from Whitburn? (know it?)
All my mates and family here just now have been on the phone all day, and I've been out with my mum. My brothers girlfriend is making me dinner later.
My mum's even hurt by it all, she treated her like one of her own.
Laura, is this common behaviour of people from Whitburn? (know it?)
Fergie, your never to old to start again, the same thing happened to me but a lot worse6 years ago, was left £20,000 in debt by the other half and she ran off with my young daughter who i havnt seen since, I might sound naff now but your never to old to start life again. I did and have been in a fantastic relationship for the last 3 years which made me wonder what the hell id been doing with my life before that.
I was 35 then, yes i do regret the past and wish i hadnt wasted my life but the whole experience makes me believe that life goes on...
By the way, I live near whitburn, if you mean whitburn near sunderland, tyne and wear?? Do you mean the same place?
I was 35 then, yes i do regret the past and wish i hadnt wasted my life but the whole experience makes me believe that life goes on...
By the way, I live near whitburn, if you mean whitburn near sunderland, tyne and wear?? Do you mean the same place?
glasgow-chick
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I've never heard of Whitburn, is it near Glasgow?
Nice that your family are looking after you.
My granny said to me years ago after a break-up that "what's for you, won't go by you" and she was absolutely right because I met someone 100 times better the following year!
Nice that your family are looking after you.
My granny said to me years ago after a break-up that "what's for you, won't go by you" and she was absolutely right because I met someone 100 times better the following year!
Awwwww hun >Fergie19 said:She just changed instantly. Used to be so in love with me, and she couldnt stop talking about us moving in together. When we saw other couples, we were always so pleased that we seemed even more in love then them.
Then, things started to happen. She went really cold physically and emotionaly with me, got very secretive with her phone, started texting guys I'd never heard off, staying at her 'mates' every night (even though I phoned one one night and she wasnt with her.
Was supposed to be going to see her today, but she said I couldnt cause she'd be in bed all day not feeling well. Then phoned her house, and she had left.
Her parents are furious with her, and I've not heard a thing since. Her mum even said I should let her go and not bother with her cause I'm too good for her and doesnt deserve me...she must know she's been up to something
Cant stop crying...
< huge hugs. Been there recently myself and I know how shitty it feels. I'm not gonna tell ya it'll get better cos ya know that already ya just dont need people ramming it down ya throat right now. Have ya got a holiday to Ibiza to look forward to?