Single :0(

[Angie24]

Sending you hugs and a wee Glasgow kiss a nice one!

As all others are saying, get your time filled and keep your mind off it. But also take time to reflect on it yourself to allow the painful feelings to disperse, it's not healthy to ignore entirely.

You have just done fantastically well at Uni, so enjoy the rest of the summer until it's time for the grown-up stuff.

Take care Andrew x

 

[Morbyd]

Hey Fergs.. you got lots of good advice on here yesterday, so I won't add to it.

How you feeling today? The world's always a bit better after a good night's sleep

 

[fergie19]

Thanks for all the advice and good wishes, much appreciated

Listen to this last night:

She came home at 10pm, and texted me...'Hi babe, thats me back now, want to give me a call? love you loads'

She doesnt thing shes done anything wrong! I had taken two days off work to see her, but she had said I couldnt cause she was too ill. Instead, she apparently went out with her 'mate' for two days, had her phone off the whole time, and never tried to get in touch!

Lets just say she got a complete shouting, but now I'm very confused. Even if she was with a mate, she was 'too ill' for me to see her, even though I've lost two days wages to come see her! wtf!

 

[Ibiza-girlie]

Fergie! I know what you feel like, im going thru the sorta same thing but here Im the one who cant seem to let finally go altho I know its for the best and that we´re not a good match.
trust me when i tell you that you´ll be fine and you´ll be happy to be single all of the sudden.
Its the right way to go*! and dont let her treat you like this, shes probably having diffucultis herself but if shes treating u like this, shes not worth it and the love you feel is frankly not vice verca and you need to be without her to find someone whos not cheating and where that special someone will ambrace the feeligs instead of pushingthem aside!

all the best!
IG

 

[djchewie]

i think u 2 need a face to face if u can sort one out.

 

[MidlifeRaver]

Run Fergie Run...this girl is TROUBLE...

Have a clean break immediately othewise its a world of even more pain...

 

[x-amount]

Have a farewell shag, though this time secretly film it.

Jobs a good 'un.

 

[fergie19]

Now I'm doubting myself that she's cheating on me, even though with all the evidence I have over the past month cant suggest anything else. Even if she's not though, she's still not treating me like she should. Don't want to be a complete mug and be walked all over

Think we're going to meet up on Sunday. There's no way I can really find out if she's been cheating though, and dont want to lose the relationship if she isnt.

No matter what though, she needs to completely wisen up

 

[djchewie]

u wanna take this with you.

couple of swings may knock some sense into her.

 

[fergie19]

 

[Buckley]

resolved to move forward, not back, and

Presumably, in the same vein, Chewie's question about your situation is "Are you thinking what we're thinking?"

Bit of Buckley (i.e.rubbish) humour to cheer you up Fergster

 

[NilSatis]

IF HE CAN DO IT.........................SO CAN YOU

CHEERS....A-HA!

 

[miaburgess]

when i broke up with my ex took me ages to get over it. you just dont feel like you will or that you want to and it feels the same for everyone. i just wish i knew at the time how good i would be feeling now. i got over it quite awhile ago but on a regular basis (usually when drunk out with the girls!) i realise all the things that weren't right with the relationship, even when i thought it was good. he wasnt the right person for me and i can see that now. and if she's treatin you badly and makin you hurt then shr prob isnt right for you. im sorry you feel bad but you will feel better soon. you just need to make the decision to not let this person mess you about. i made a wrong descision and wasted a year of my life clingin onto somat that was makin me miserable when i could of been as happy as i am now!the quicker you can let go the quicker you can be super happy and meet someone who deserves you. big smiles.

 

[djchewie]

resolved to move forward, not back, and

Presumably, in the same vein, Chewie's question about your situation is "Are you thinking what we're thinking?"

Bit of Buckley (i.e.rubbish) humour to cheer you up Fergster

think u better spend the morning "warming up" next time...

(for the record ive got image of Fergie getting arrested for assault with a deadly moonfish)

 

[djchewie]

scrub that

"assault and Battery"

 

[kitty]

I hate to sound bah humbug-ish but this is exactly why ive stayed single for over 3 years...sounds awful i know but the pain of splitting up or arguing etc is not worth me having relationships...

i'd say stay single and have some fun...i love being single!!! maybe dont have sex as often (maybe once a year if im lucky )but its cool...no heartache..no hassle...

 

[PachaGirl79]

Fergie, she is going to go through a FREAK OUT stage once she A) gets a taste of the lovely single life, and most importantly B) realizes the great thing she lost! She might go to great lengths to convince you to take her back.

No matter what she says.... STEER CLEAR BABE!!!

Come talk to us, go for a run, do anything possible to take your mind off it if you get the urge to call or give in. You are AWESOME! She sucks.

ps. Sounds like a lot of clear-headed opinions on this subject! Going to keep the link around in case my love life ever heats up any in the future

 

[small jinx]

Ok fair do's if you get opportunity "to meet up & discuss".

DON'T be a doormat , but be a gent and serenade her with the following http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/nodoubt/doormat.html

Remember you must remain a malteser (don't melt in her hands, because thats what she'll expect).