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fergie19

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Just feel like I need to speak to some people, as most of my mates are away on holiday this week:

My relationship has just come to an end. Been going out with a girl now for the past year, and I'm still so in love with her. We've always thought we were the best couple ever, and never ever felt this way about somone

She lives 140 miles away, but we've never been apart for more than 5 days. However, three weeks ago she started to act completely off with me. Just realised today that shes been seeing someone else for the past month, and has lied to move since the start.

Was supposed to be seeing her today, but she's gone awol. There's been so many things to suggest she's been cheating, but i've tried to not belive it. Seems like now she cant even bring herself to finish it, so has just disappeared.

I'm completely broken, hurt, and dont think I'll trust anyone again. I still love her more than ever, even though I'm trying to hate her :cry:

Sorry for the long message, just needed to get it out :cry: :cry:
 
If you're sure she's been playing away Fergs old son, move onwards and upwards. [Insert every cliche you've ever heard here, 'cos must of them are true].

Luckily you're 21 not 41, so seize the opportunity to enjoy being young and single - the time will come when the person you'd have to give up to do so will mean far too much to you.

If you you can get yourself down to London on Friday you're more than welcome as my guest on the boat/afters etc. They'll be models there ;)
 
Oh Andrew :cry:, you poor little mite. The least she could of done was tell you face to face.

I knew you really liked her because you were really enjoying your single life last year until she came on the scene. Why anyone would want to cheat on you of all people is surprising, you've got it all, its a shame that she cant see that :?.

Im here if you need to talk.

Dont keep trying to contact her, i know its hard but it will give her satisfaction :roll:
 
She just changed instantly. Used to be so in love with me, and she couldnt stop talking about us moving in together. When we saw other couples, we were always so pleased that we seemed even more in love then them.

Then, things started to happen. She went really cold physically and emotionaly with me, got very secretive with her phone, started texting guys I'd never heard off, staying at her 'mates' every night (even though I phoned one one night and she wasnt with her.

Was supposed to be going to see her today, but she said I couldnt cause she'd be in bed all day not feeling well. Then phoned her house, and she had left.

Her parents are furious with her, and I've not heard a thing since. Her mum even said I should let her go and not bother with her cause I'm too good for her and doesnt deserve me...she must know she's been up to something :cry:

Cant stop crying...
 
how old is she mate?

some girls cant grow up. and think by sneaking around theyre shielding u from hurt.

better off without this one mate.
 
I knew you really liked her because you were really enjoying your single life last year until she came on the scene. Why anyone would want to cheat on you of all people is surprising, you've got it all, its a shame that she cant see that .
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Before I met her I know myself I didnt treat women too well, just playing the field. Since I met her I have honestly never even been tempted by anyone else.

Don't want to sound a snob, but her parents always said I was the best thing to ever happen to her. She's from a very poor background, and didnt have many opportunities. She has been on holidays with me and mu family has taken her to places she could never dreamed off, then she goes and does this to me....not fair at all :cry:
 
Awwww Fergs *big big hugs* am so sorry to hear this. You'll be ok though, just get yourself through the shitty time xx
 
Chewie,

She's 19, but normally acted much older and more mature than all of us. Know that sounds very young, and me possibly naive to think it would last, but it really did feel different this time.

Just spent the day with my mum, and we cant believe she's done this at all.

The hardest thing is that the last year now feels like a lie, and that I dint really know her
 
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hard to act 24/7 mate.

you either are or youre not.

rather this happen now than when youve got 3 kids and a mortgage.

just think of it that way, prob no consolation to you tho at this moment in time.

she could at least have spoken to you if she had any "issues" with your relationship tho. if you can communicate and speak to each other about yr relationship, what can u do?

id leave her be otherwise she'll turn it round and make you to be the villan
 
Hey dude, really sorry :( Something similar happened to me once and I can still remember how horrible it felt :(

Chin up dude and know if she's treated you like this, you're better off without her.
 
chewie_oo7 said:
id leave her be otherwise she'll turn it round and make you to be the villan
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No issues of your own hiddden in there Chew? :lol:

Sorry - serious face back on now.
 
Brought it all up with her for the past few weeks, but shes always denied everything and said how much she wants to be with me. Before she went out of contact yesterday we had made up, and she seemed really happy again....two hours later and she had gone.

She's always had problems with her mum being too controlling, and ive listened to her moan for hours about it. Now I see her mum had good reason, and I was just seeing the best in her :cry:

She still owes me lots of money as well, even though she works and Ive been at Uni :evil:
 
Buckley said:
chewie_oo7 said:
id leave her be otherwise she'll turn it round and make you to be the villan
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No issues of your own hiddden in there Chew? :lol:

Sorry - serious face back on now.
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probably, but what the hell... Aint my prob if people see it that way, tis out of my control so why waste time and breath on a situation you have no control in.

theres only 2 d's in hidden btw :lol:
 
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