Kent kid, you just need to accept there are some of us who don't want to see people waving phones or cameras about EVER on a dancefloor and have a very dim view of people who do. That ain't going to change and so you'll need to go your way and we'll need to go ours on this. What we (rightfully) resent is one group (the piccy-takers) crowding out the piccy-haters and trying to dominate everywhere and change everywhere to their way of doing things. That isn't right or fair. Some places have to take a firm line on all this, sadly in the increasingly fake, plastic world that Ibiza clubbing is becoming none of the venues have the guts to do it - they favour all the Youtube publicity more because they don't actually have enough credibility to attract and sustain in one short Season each year the sort of scene which bastions of "real clubbing" in year-round city locations do.
Ibiza clubs rely on herdes of sheep passing through dripping money they may or may not actually have to spare, their judgement impaired by overpriced booze (and the rest) whilst the hype created (mainly by a few ridiculously overpaid and overrated sync-button monkeys) becomes self-sustaining. And if those walking wallets want to spend their night waving a smartphone about no-one running these clubs cares as long as the punters filling their venues keep spending money and making the club-moguls richer and richer. None of that is actually anywhere near the sort of "Quadrant Park" experience of years gone by (using the rare clip above as an example) - it's something completely different and a big loss to the clubbing community as a whole.
It would just be nice to see more venues taking a zero-tolerance line on filming and photos in clubs, with punters focusing less on trying to look glamorous on Instagram and more on losing themselves in the moment. We used to joke about the odd "bunch of posers" who showed up every so often, now they are everywhere you look, not effortlessly stylish - just cliched and stylised ! It's something maybe the younger generation are accustomed to, having been brought up on it, but so much has been lost in the media-saturated world that has developed there are fewer and fewer refuges to actually get away from it all. I am just sorry that many will seemingly never experience the "other way" and so will carry on ignorant of what it really means.