Marriage - non christians

lil' Joey said:
Please don't get me wrong. I am in no way against Marriage. I have just seen a lot of people get married because "It was then next thing to do". Thats all.
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A lot of people do it without meaning, i understand that but what you dont seem to understand / believe from me as it seems is all what i've explained to you and how i feel about it. Its quite clear to me that you dont want to go through it all again. Thats your choice and i respect it.
 
forget protocol and "the next thing to do" Im doing it because I love my girlfriend and I couldnt imagine life without her...seriously
 
jjinit said:
forget protocol and "the next thing to do" Im doing it because I love my girlfriend and I couldnt imagine life without her...seriously
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aren't you a sweet catch :lol: ;)
 
jjinit said:
forget protocol and "the next thing to do" Im doing it because I love my girlfriend and I couldnt imagine life without her...seriously
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agree j, i'm the same but i think the point some people are making is that getting married doesn't or shouldn't change any of that. If i had said to my missus, i don't believe in marriage, i know she wouldn't have had a prob and we'd still love each other and still wouldn't have been able to imagine life without each other.:oops:

*talks quietly*:roll: are you err....have you....err........has she given you an ultimatum or somethin?:?
 
not at all, to be fair I share your views, "why do I need a piece of paper to prove how much I love you" etc but she's an old fashioned girl at heart and who am I to deny her, her big day?? and as my parents are still together as are hers, the institute of marriage still has some significance, also I think it's nicer for our children(if & when they arrive) to have that "security" however token that is these days?
 
I beleive in marriage.. and I'm not really religious..

I don't doubt that people who live together don't have the same amount of love and respect for their SO, but I do think that getting married binds the commitment... and although divorce rate is extremely high, I think NOT getting married makes it easier to back out of a relationship.

If its 'just a piece of paper', then whats the big deal? why not get the piece of paper?
 
jjinit said:
not at all, to be fair I share your views, "why do I need a piece of paper to prove how much I love you" etc but she's an old fashioned girl at heart and who am I to deny her, her big day?? and as my parents are still together as are hers, the institute of marriage still has some significance, also I think it's nicer for our children(if & when they arrive) to have that "security" however token that is these days?
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share all your views;) , just playing devil's advocate jason:lol: .
 
jjinit said:
never had you down as keanu reeves?? ;)
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good film, weird twist though. i won't do a stuie and reveal the whole plot though:roll:. its on again tonight - BBC1

yeah i'm more wesley snipes than keanu:lol:
 
grego said:
good film, weird twist though. i won't do a stuie and reveal the whole plot though:roll:. its on again tonight - BBC1

yeah i'm more wesley snipes than keanu:lol:
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ALWAYS BET ON BLACK!
 
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