I know someone on here once said its a bit sad to write about your life story as people dont really want to know/think its ridiculous. But as none of you really know me know me I thought what the hell and I having such a s**t day I need to get it off my chest. And its only 9:25.
Without making a long story even longer, I am in a dilemma.
My BF lives 50 miles away so we only see each other weekends, Sat and Sun are our days if you like. One weekend he come down to where I live and met a few of my mates one being one of my guy mates I have known for years, where we were in a noisy bar they didnt properly get introduced and it ended up with my guy mate only talking to me - not saying hello to the BF so this immediately put his back up - said he was a mug for not saying hello to him when he was literally with us for 5 mins and went off anyway. But once he dont like someone thats it.
My guy mate happens to be going out with one of my best girly mates so its not like I never see them and they are good friends of mine especially her. Its the said guy mates bday this weekend (pub golf) so I said to my BF that I would like to go if thats ok and I make it up to him by seeing him Fri or Sun instead like a compromise.
He gone absolutely mental on me saying I have chosen a mug over him, obviously dont care about us, how could I do that after the way guy mate treated him on the night out in Southend. I said to him I wouldnt go if it was this much of a prob and his attitude is like "well your going now because you have caused an argument".
A load of other "home truths" came out so to speak - wont bore you with those. But at the moment I really dont know what to do, it all seems very childish to me bearing in mind I am 23 and he is 28. And this is all through "text".
My best mate says if it was her she wouldnt go to the bday as she likes an "easy life". My other mate whose boyfriend it is bday says I should go and put my foot down dont be dictated to.
To be honest I dont HAVE to go and I dont NEED to to. But I would like to as I said its one of my mates bdays, it will be a laugh, all the girlies are making a night of it. So I didnt see the problem but apparantly its like the worst thing ever I could have said.
Now I feel like if I go I "dont care about us" and then if I dont go its like he has won, and I have already been in one controlling relationship - I dont want another.
MEN!!!!!!
Without making a long story even longer, I am in a dilemma.
My BF lives 50 miles away so we only see each other weekends, Sat and Sun are our days if you like. One weekend he come down to where I live and met a few of my mates one being one of my guy mates I have known for years, where we were in a noisy bar they didnt properly get introduced and it ended up with my guy mate only talking to me - not saying hello to the BF so this immediately put his back up - said he was a mug for not saying hello to him when he was literally with us for 5 mins and went off anyway. But once he dont like someone thats it.
My guy mate happens to be going out with one of my best girly mates so its not like I never see them and they are good friends of mine especially her. Its the said guy mates bday this weekend (pub golf) so I said to my BF that I would like to go if thats ok and I make it up to him by seeing him Fri or Sun instead like a compromise.
He gone absolutely mental on me saying I have chosen a mug over him, obviously dont care about us, how could I do that after the way guy mate treated him on the night out in Southend. I said to him I wouldnt go if it was this much of a prob and his attitude is like "well your going now because you have caused an argument".
A load of other "home truths" came out so to speak - wont bore you with those. But at the moment I really dont know what to do, it all seems very childish to me bearing in mind I am 23 and he is 28. And this is all through "text".
My best mate says if it was her she wouldnt go to the bday as she likes an "easy life". My other mate whose boyfriend it is bday says I should go and put my foot down dont be dictated to.
To be honest I dont HAVE to go and I dont NEED to to. But I would like to as I said its one of my mates bdays, it will be a laugh, all the girlies are making a night of it. So I didnt see the problem but apparantly its like the worst thing ever I could have said.
Now I feel like if I go I "dont care about us" and then if I dont go its like he has won, and I have already been in one controlling relationship - I dont want another.
MEN!!!!!!