Isnt being in love great

[jen.west]

i dunno, let me check my diary...
synch i think were in the wrong thread here! theres loved up people everywhere...................

maybe we need our own private thread.... 8)

hmmmm maybe. oh i checked my diary n it looks like im booked up all weekend! sorry!

 

[Mark Sun]

i dunno, let me check my diary...
synch i think were in the wrong thread here! theres loved up people everywhere...................

maybe we need our own private thread.... 8)

hmmmm maybe. oh i checked my diary n it looks like im booked up all weekend! sorry!

Washing your hair?

 

[sunny_d]

last night i found out second-hand that my gf of 11 years cheated on me last year when she went on holiday with her mates. apparently her justification was that she was certain i'd done the same when i went to ibiza with my mate a month earlier, which i didn't....i've never cheated on her.

we're sposed to be getting married this year, but that's going in the bin now and though it tears me apart to say it, i think i have to bin her as well.

how can you stay with someone you can't trust, no matter how much you love them?

oh dear, i'm just waiting for the day to end so i can meet her and confront her about it. arrrgh.....

i'm well peed off - it's gonna be messy. we have a big mortgage, have booked to go to ibiza with all our mates in july, and again in september, plus we got glastonbury tickets together the other day. i feel like my life's about to fall to bits and it will be my doing, but if she admits it (which i think she'll have to when i tell her how i found out) then what choice do i have?

bwaaaaaah!

 

[jen.west]

last night i found out second-hand that my gf of 11 years cheated on me last year when she went on holiday with her mates. apparently her justification was that she was certain i'd done the same when i went to ibiza with my mate a month earlier, which i didn't....i've never cheated on her.

we're sposed to be getting married this year, but that's going in the bin now and though it tears me apart to say it, i think i have to bin her as well.

how can you stay with someone you can't trust, no matter how much you love them?

oh dear, i'm just waiting for the day to end so i can meet her and confront her about it. arrrgh.....

i'm well peed off - it's gonna be messy. we have a big mortgage, have booked to go to ibiza with all our mates in july, and again in september, plus we got glastonbury tickets together the other day. i feel like my life's about to fall to bits and it will be my doing, but if she admits it (which i think she'll have to when i tell her how i found out) then what choice do i have?

bwaaaaaah!

i don't think u should make any decisions until you've spoken to her about it. i'm not sayin what she did is ok cos i cant stand cheating but it sounds like you've got a pretty solid relationship. if it was just a kiss or something she might have a reasonable explanation. if you love her don't throw away all the hard work just for something that was a long time ago and could be little. good luck hun! xxx

 

[sunny_d]

thanks jen, i haven't made any decisions yet but i've got a very bad feeling about this.

what i've been told is that it wasn't a kiss, it was the whole nine yards so to speak.

if it's true, i can understand it, but i don't think i can trust her any more.

i'm hoping the person who told me has crossed wires, but without getting into the detail, the way she let it slip and what was said makes this seem highly unlikely.

 

[linzi99]

Dont be hasty, love makes you do stupid things, lasy year i was obsessed my husband was having an affair, to the point i was running around with video cameras ect, i couldnt eat and looked terrible, it became my obsession, i was so sure about the affair i ended up going out getting absolutly trashed and doing something i totaly regret, luckily he has never found out, and hopefully he never will. To this day he swears nothing was ever going on, and in a way it has made us stronger, you have to think what your life would be like without your girlfriend, all the plans you've made, will you be able to still have a great time with someone else, i know i couldnt, he's my soul mate, you've got to just put it behind you, forget it, if she regrets it as much as me, she will never ever do it again !

 

[x-amount]

I'd clear my history and temp internet files if I were you!

 

[small jinx]

last night i found out second-hand that my gf of 11 years cheated on me last year when she went on holiday with her mates. apparently her justification was that she was certain i'd done the same when i went to ibiza with my mate a month earlier, which i didn't....i've never cheated on her.

we're sposed to be getting married this year, but that's going in the bin now and though it tears me apart to say it, i think i have to bin her as well.

how can you stay with someone you can't trust, no matter how much you love them?

oh dear, i'm just waiting for the day to end so i can meet her and confront her about it. arrrgh.....

i'm well peed off - it's gonna be messy. we have a big mortgage, have booked to go to ibiza with all our mates in july, and again in september, plus we got glastonbury tickets together the other day. i feel like my life's about to fall to bits and it will be my doing, but if she admits it (which i think she'll have to when i tell her how i found out) then what choice do i have?

bwaaaaaah!

i don't think u should make any decisions until you've spoken to her about it. i'm not sayin what she did is ok cos i cant stand cheating but it sounds like you've got a pretty solid relationship. if it was just a kiss or something she might have a reasonable explanation. if you love her don't throw away all the hard work just for something that was a long time ago and could be little. good luck hun! xxx

Some might say ignorance is bliss, but if you can't trust someone then that fair enough.

 

[sunny_d]

well, as it turned out i think i might have gone on a bit of a paranoid one here. that'll teach me to beak it up til 3am on a school night....

i had it out with her on friday night and she was totally shocked...couldn't believe what i was saying etc. we went over it all and, well, it's a bit complicated to explain but like i say i think i messed up.

what a nob i feel now spilling guts out on here

ah well, at least my life hasn't fallen to bits and on such a beautfiul sunny day here in london i think i'm gonna skive off work this afternoon and sit in the garden. 8)