your opinion about men and women

kes said:
Do you feel you have desires to your female friends???
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er... yeah!! i don't give off the vibes if i don't think i'm in with a chance though.

In my experience girls don't notice the boys they don't fancy... doesn't meen the boy doesn't fancy her. And if it's clear she doesn't fancy him. Talks about her boyfriend all the time never flirts etc then that boy ain't gonna let on... so she remains none the wiser.

In my experience ;)

I do have girl friends that i don't want to shag... they're ugly... sorry but the niavity of this conversation needs some bluntness injected :lol:
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Maybe I am naive then - most of my mates are classed (by other girls) as fit as f*** - I dont fancy them - they dont fancy me - end of ...

possibly I am classed as a beer swilling, foul mouthed type of northern bird and that's why I dont get the vibes from them..... :roll: :roll:
 
this is actually quite tricky. I would also say that men and women can be friends, but if people are really honest, how comfotable would they feel with their partners having good friends of the opposite sex and spending time with them ;)
I know trust comes into it, but it's got to be difficult to let your partner go out and party with 'best friend' :?
 
albi said:
this is actually quite tricky. I would also say that men and women can be friends, but if people are really honest, how comfotable would they feel with their partners having good friends of the opposite sex and spending time with them ;)
I know trust comes into it, but it's got to be difficult to let your partner go out and party with 'best friend' :?
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Not everybody is jealous as you seem to be ;)

In my case it's not difficult to let my partner go out and party with girl friends (I actually don't let him, he does whatever he wants as I do), cos I do go out and party with boy friends. :D
 
albi said:
this is actually quite tricky. I would also say that men and women can be friends, but if people are really honest, how comfotable would they feel with their partners having good friends of the opposite sex and spending time with them ;)
I know trust comes into it, but it's got to be difficult to let your partner go out and party with 'best friend' :?
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Completely comfortable, I often meet boy friends for drinks on my own without Tom and he doesn't think it's any different to me spending time with my girlie friends. Similarly some of Tom's closest friends at works are girls and it's never crossed my mind that they want to shag him or he wants to shag them. Friends are just friends regardless of what sex they happen to be.
 
My best friend is a straight male, it's caused himall sorts of bother with his girlfriends even though I try and befriend them. I guess he hasn't met the right girl if she is going to be jealous of his friendship with me? I'm married for funks sake! :roll:

I'm the same as pups ration of 75% male mates (half gay, half straight) and 25% female. I'm fussier with choosing girly mates as certain types of girl get on my tits :lol: The girl mates I have got are little belters though!
 
puppylover said:
they dont fancy me - end of ...
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and how would you know that? you'd expect the bloke to be honest i suppose?

Maybe they don't feel it's appropriate to say anything... maybe it isn't! doesn't change whats going on under the service.

C'mon lads back me up here or you worried you're gonna drop yourself in it :lol:
 
Maybe it is a generalization but I think that between male and female friendships the guy generally thinks about hooking up. He might not pursue it actively but I don't think he would turn it down if offered (that is unless this person is of course not attractive). But I think girls approach these friendships differently and truly believe that they can transcend that. But I have had too many male friends who have admitted that they would take me up on it if it was offered and still consider themselves just my friend...

It is a completely different type of friendship, but that is only my simple opinion :D
 
mikkak said:
can they be just friends? or there is something behind it? What you think about this?
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Mikkak:

You need to watch Chris Rock's stand up comedy video Bigger and Blacker. According to him, whenever guys are being nice to girls, they are offering them some di*k.

mikkak said:
but the other day one girl told me that she didn't like her husband seeing some of his friends, that are girls.
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I think it was in his other HBO stand-up, Never Scared (that is also available on DVD), he mentioned that when a man meets his friend's girl friend who is a great girl, he thinks "What a nice girl". I would like to be with a nice girl like that some day. However, when a girl meets her friend's boy friend who is a great guy, she thinks "I want that man".

I guess that is why the wife does not want the husband from seeing other chicas; even as friends.

BTW, Chris Rock and Jerry Seinfeld are my all time favorite comedians. Very different styles, but both equally hilariously funny.
 
Anjali said:
Maybe it is a generalization but I think that between male and female friendships the guy generally thinks about hooking up. He might not pursue it actively but I don't think he would turn it down if offered (that is unless this person is of course not attractive).
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Agreed. ;) Also, if the girl's taken you approach the relationship differently.
 
I believe they CAN, i have 85 % male friends (and havent bedded that many of them haha) - and 15 % women. 2-3-4 close girlie friends.
But there will always be the potential question you ask yourself: WOULD I fancy him?
 
I've shagged (or about to shag) most of the girls who i was supposed to be just friends with (then afterwards we stayed 'just friends' or moved onto a higher level in the relationship, whether if its sex mates or even an official couple :)).

What does it say about me/them/the whole situation? :D :P
 
Let's face it, most men won't turn down a shag unless the lass in question is a total swamp donkey.

If an attractive female friend asked me if I wanted to get it on, it wouldn't be a great dilemma... I don't actively pursue any of my female friends, but I wouldn't say no to most of them. :lol:
 
fusion PMSL well i dont blame u, some men justthink like that. personally. I prefer being just friends and NO shagging friends. it just weird afterwards.
 
kes said:
puppylover said:
they dont fancy me - end of ...
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and how would you know that? you'd expect the bloke to be honest i suppose?

Maybe they don't feel it's appropriate to say anything... maybe it isn't! doesn't change whats going on under the service.

C'mon lads back me up here or you worried you're gonna drop yourself in it :lol:
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The relationships I have with my bloke mates is pretty honest to be truthful. I would imagine that if their feelings somehow changed towards me then, yes, I think they would be honest.....

Maybe I just have really good honest relationships with my bloke friends..... I trust them implicitly and I do believe that they are friends with me for many reasons not in the hope that they are gonna grab a sneaky look at my t*ts to fulfil their latent desires for me...... ;)
 
PL that's cause you are taken (and i assume they know and respect that).
I bet things would look different had u were single.
 
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