would you gatecrash the wedding???
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lindsey1983
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does this person know you are going to be there when they're getting wed?
If they do and havent asked you, i wouldnt go.
Sod em!
If they do and havent asked you, i wouldnt go.
Sod em!
DJ Soulman
Active Member
I wouldn't turn up at anyone's wedding without an invite. But then, I don't like going to weddings anyway and avoid.
I don't like DJing at them either, only done a couple for 'friends' as a favour. DJs in the USA make lots of dosh doing weddings, I just couldn't hack it week in week out, yuk!
I don't like DJing at them either, only done a couple for 'friends' as a favour. DJs in the USA make lots of dosh doing weddings, I just couldn't hack it week in week out, yuk!
sweet sensation
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The rebel half of me wants to say gatecrash the wedding and just turn up on the day! 
But id like to know how do you know where it is if you havent been invited?
The other half of me says weddings take a lot of planning and preparation and are rather stressful and if someone just turned up to my wedding and expected to be fed and watered Id be pretty p*ssed off! Like Dr Mick said you can go to the service if its in a church. Id be fine with people turning up to the service cos most weddings in churches or registry offices that I have gone to theres been some random checking out the bride (or groom depending on what they go for
) and I can pretty much guess when I get married on Cala Gracionetta in May this year we'll have some randoms watching us! 
Ive also had people who I hadnt invited ask if they could come, some Ive said no and some Ive said yes
If you value their friendship (and you really should if they live in NY, think free holidays ) Id tell them youre in NY and could you come and see them get married?
But id like to know how do you know where it is if you havent been invited?The other half of me says weddings take a lot of planning and preparation and are rather stressful and if someone just turned up to my wedding and expected to be fed and watered Id be pretty p*ssed off! Like Dr Mick said you can go to the service if its in a church. Id be fine with people turning up to the service cos most weddings in churches or registry offices that I have gone to theres been some random checking out the bride (or groom depending on what they go for
) and I can pretty much guess when I get married on Cala Gracionetta in May this year we'll have some randoms watching us! Ive also had people who I hadnt invited ask if they could come, some Ive said no and some Ive said yes If you value their friendship (and you really should if they live in NY, think free holidays
) Id tell them youre in NY and could you come and see them get married?