Why am I such a f***up?

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Dual_Life

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Just when everything was looking up, everything falls down right on my lap and it's all my fault. Everything just goes wrong. And it all comes back to me screwing someting up.

In personal relationships, I have found out just how fickle people can truly be.

I havn't been able to find a job in over 10 months.

The job I want dosn't want me. I won't be able to get my trip to Spain next May to see my cousin get married or get my 4x10 bass amp, pay for my car insurance or tuition.

Speaking of amp, my friend and I have never played worse or less imaginative ever. Everything has just been reduced to suck. We STILL can't find a drummer.

Everything I wanted or needed just slid through my fingertips, and it all happened over the past few days at once. And nobody seems to notice or care. Nobody cares.

What's wrong with me? I want to know. I want to be happy but nothing is comming out that way.
 
Damn dude, things can't all be that bad. And, if they are, maybe you need to hang onto the things that make you happy right now. If that job don't want you, f*** them, there are tons of jobs out there. I am sure that your cousin will understand if you miss his/her wedding, that's why they are your family. Keep your chin up, things will get better! :D
 
Ouch... :(


Do you like to read?

The self-help section is great for times of sorrow.

I am pretty speechless, but try and cheer up. Things could always be worse right? You didn't get hit by a Tsunami, your not in Iraq, your not involved in this teen pregnancy scandal ( or are you? 8O ), and most importantly your alive.


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Remeber after rain comes sunshine ... except if you live in England :D

Cheer up, life goes with ups and downs that is what makes it worthwhile! Just wait a little bit longer and everything will become better!
 
In life you might not get the help that you want but you will get the help that you need. I guess maybe something might be telling you that your life needs a good shake-up and that you might need to start looking in different directions for inspiration. Just my two-pence worth.
 
Poor guy. I hate those times when nothing seems to be working out in your favor and nothing makes you happy. You're hitting a few bumps in the road right now, just keep plugging. You can bet on NOTHING getting better if you don't at least try to keep on it. You'll get through it! -xo PG
 
when you've hit rock bottom the only way left is up.

Call it character building and hang on in there ;)
 
Its hard to see a way out right now, I know that from the last few weeks i've had. I was very close to giving up at one point 2 weeks ago. But this week, things started going right and pretty soon i'll be back on my feet. It WILL get better even though I know right now you'll be sat there thinking "yeah, right"
 
And remember. These things only happen to those who can cope with them. It will make you stronger and able to cope better with the next shitty thing that comes along. Because plenty more will!
 
Welcome to real life :? We've all had times when life feels like a negative whirligig.
You need to look after number 1 at the moment.
Reassess your goals and make plans to take small steps towards what you want.

Don't give up, you have to keep on trying. You may not immediately be successful but its better to have tried, than to sit & sulk wishing you had tried.
 
Paddy Eeziglow said:
In life you might not get the help that you want but you will get the help that you need. I guess maybe something might be telling you that your life needs a good shake-up and that you might need to start looking in different directions for inspiration. Just my two-pence worth.
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I hate optimists, but I guess you're right.

That and two pence is almost four cents! I guess that's a way of looking up.
 
small jinx said:
Welcome to real life :? We've all had times when life feels like a negative whirligig.
You need to look after number 1 at the moment.
Reassess your goals and make plans to take small steps towards what you want.

Don't give up, you have to keep on trying. You may not immediately be successful but its better to have tried, than to sit & sulk wishing you had tried.
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Good advice SJ. To quote Begala and Carville Buck up, Suck up and Come Back When You Foul Up.

Have a Good Long Weekend,

Laguna
 
LagunaBeachCA said:
small jinx said:
Welcome to real life :? We've all had times when life feels like a negative whirligig.
You need to look after number 1 at the moment.
Reassess your goals and make plans to take small steps towards what you want.

Don't give up, you have to keep on trying. You may not immediately be successful but its better to have tried, than to sit & sulk wishing you had tried.
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Good advice SJ. To quote Begala and Carville Buck up, Suck up and Come Back When You Foul Up.

Have a Good Long Weekend,

Laguna
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Wow, have you been around lately, LB?
 
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