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synchronicity

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there's this girl who has the distinction of being the first laydeeeee to blow me out when I moved back to London last year...she is a PA at my previous place of work. I fancied her for ages, and she was fully aware of the fact, but never "gave it up"...

since I left the company (and after having had a liason with another of the PA's) her attitude to me appears to have warmed, to the extent that we are meeting up on a weekly basis for quasi "dates", going for drinks and to the cinema.

Is it likely that she wants it?
 
synchronicity said:
there's this girl who has the distinction of being the first laydeeeee to blow me out when I moved back to London last year...she is a PA at my previous place of work. I fancied her for ages, and she was fully aware of the fact, but never "gave it up"...

since I left the company (and after having had a liason with another of the PA's) her attitude to me appears to have warmed, to the extent that we are meeting up on a weekly basis for quasi "dates", going for drinks and to the cinema.

Is it likely that she wants it?
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Or she is it more likely that she wants to know you still want it? Have you been vocal on the sunject of your (numerous :lol: ) other ladyeeez, thus creating a green-eyed monster with her very core?
 
Buckley said:
synchronicity said:
there's this girl who has the distinction of being the first laydeeeee to blow me out when I moved back to London last year...she is a PA at my previous place of work. I fancied her for ages, and she was fully aware of the fact, but never "gave it up"...

since I left the company (and after having had a liason with another of the PA's) her attitude to me appears to have warmed, to the extent that we are meeting up on a weekly basis for quasi "dates", going for drinks and to the cinema.

Is it likely that she wants it?
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Or she is it more likely that she wants to know you still want it? Have you been vocal on the sunject of your (numerous :lol: ) other ladyeeez, thus creating a green-eyed monster with her very core?
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Well, one of her friends fancied me (I turned this opportunity down), and then I got jiggy with one of her work colleagues, and she also met a very attractive girl who I went out with briefly a couple of months ago...so on that basis I'm rather wondering if my stock has perhaps riusen a little in her eyes?

at the same time, it's a slightly delicate situation so I don't wanna just lunge in there if I'm misreading it...
 
Hi Sync. :D

Sounds to me like she realised she wanted it when she saw you with someone else. Also, unless she's just a naughty little tease, she wouldn't be going out with you on all these "dates", knowing that you fancy her, if she didn't fancy you.
 
Holly G said:
Hi Sync. :D

Sounds to me like she realised she wanted it when she saw you with someone else. Also, unless she's just a naughty little tease, she wouldn't be going out with you on all these "dates", knowing that you fancy her, if she didn't fancy you.
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Hey...how YOU doing??!!

I mean, my thinking is most girls would run a mile rather than put themselves in that situation with a guy who they aren't in to at least a little bit...

but then these things aren't always logical...!
 
synchronicity said:
[Hey...how YOU doing??!!

I mean, my thinking is most girls would run a mile rather than put themselves in that situation with a guy who they aren't in to at least a little bit...
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Yeah, I agree. Unless she's got some kind of vendetta going on with the other PA and she's just doing it to piss her off. :lol:

I'm doing good thanks. ;)
 
Holly G said:
synchronicity said:
[Hey...how YOU doing??!!

I mean, my thinking is most girls would run a mile rather than put themselves in that situation with a guy who they aren't in to at least a little bit...
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Yeah, I agree. Unless she's got some kind of vendetta going on with the other PA and she's just doing it to piss her off. :lol:

I'm doing good thanks. ;)
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having said that...I don't think the thing with the other PA has exactly helped my cause.....I don't think she views me as entirely trustworthy....is it possible I'd need to counter this perception before getting in there?
 
synchronicity said:
[having said that...I don't think the thing with the other PA has exactly helped my cause.....I don't think she views me as entirely trustworthy....is it possible I'd need to counter this perception before getting in there?
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No, don't bother. She's obviously attracted to you as a Casanova type! You might as well play up your rogueish charm. :lol:
 
Holly G said:
synchronicity said:
[having said that...I don't think the thing with the other PA has exactly helped my cause.....I don't think she views me as entirely trustworthy....is it possible I'd need to counter this perception before getting in there?
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No, don't bother. She's obviously attracted to you as a Casanova type! You might as well play up your rogueish charm. :lol:
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honestly? do you reckon that reverse psychology vibe works in these situations...? 8)
 
synchronicity said:
[honestly? do you reckon that reverse psychology vibe works in these situations...? 8)
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Stop analysing it and get on with it man!! Has anything happened between you yet or are these little dates completely chaste??
 
Holly G said:
synchronicity said:
[honestly? do you reckon that reverse psychology vibe works in these situations...? 8)
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Stop analysing it and get on with it man!! Has anything happened between you yet or are these little dates completely chaste??
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chaste really...kiss on the lips that's it. quite a bit of texting and emailing in between - pretty teenage-style stuff really!
Under normal circumstances I'd just go for it, but with her I feel a little embarrassed because of what's happened before and the fact that we have mutual colleagues and all that jazz....
 
synchronicity said:
[chaste really...kiss on the lips that's it. quite a bit of texting and emailing in between - pretty teenage-style stuff really!
Under normal circumstances I'd just go for it, but with her I feel a little embarrassed because of what's happened before and the fact that we have mutual colleagues and all that jazz....
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But haven't you left the company? (Where are you working now?)

I think you'll have to post your email conversations on the board so we can give you our opinions. :lol:
 
Holly G said:
But haven't you left the company? (Where are you working now?)

I think you'll have to post your email conversations on the board so we can give you our opinions. :lol:
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Wise advice! :lol: :lol:
 
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