james said:if you have nothing positive to say about a topic, don't contribute.
stuie said:james said:if you have nothing positive to say about a topic, don't contribute.
surely you can't mean that!
whatever happened to weighing up the pros and cons?
and the sharing of good and bad experiences?
stephen said:exactly. what we have on spotlight's forum is a minute cross section of ibiza life. if i was soft enough to believe what i read on here based on the opinion of about 15 almost identical people i would never ever visit ibiza. anybody who dares to post an opinion which doesn't suit the views of our regular denizons is immediately pounced upon as some sort of pariah.
our aim is to give information about ibiza - what's good for some is bad for others - that's life.
please try to be constructive.
stephen said:that does not mean however that anybody who happens to post about anything or anywhere not favoured by the chosen few should be subjected to a public execution!
stuie said:(obviously not referring to stupid comments!)
stephen said:if nitefly put his finger in the fire would you?
my teacher, mrs. wilton, used to say this to me in 1958, though obviously she didn't use the name nitefly as in those days it was considered an odd name, and i could never fathom out why she said it.