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controversial comments there my man, and I agree with what you say....however... If you look at the likes of keane, pearce, adams et al and you watch them closely, it's not just bawling, and it's actually quite constructive and a different kind of motivation, the likes of beckham, gascoigne, lineker all have relived (in their books) situations where the chips have been down and many heads had dropped and then the likes of the aforementioned have gone round the team and given everyone a a lift and turned the situation round, these technically brilliant players may inspire with their trickery, but when heads start to drop you need a bit of "verbal" rather than seeing someone do a few "step overs"