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diver
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I used to go to Ibiza with my best mate, he let me do all the booking and plan club nights. Thing is, he wasn't forward thinking and ended up being stuck (still is) in some "funky house" black hole.
As the years went on, it became harder and harder to choose the right nights. I couldn't get it right and he would moan at the drop of a hat, "too crowded" "music dull" .............
He called me a control freak on the last trip, I was pretty hurt by that as i had tried to focus most of the holiday on us both enjoying it. It was like having yer bird or wife in tow and trying to keep them happy, I get enough of that in day to day life.
In the end, I booked without telling him, worried about it for a few months, then dropped the bomb. He wasn't actually that bothered, i think he had outgrown it, or the scene had outgrown him.
I travel with another dude now, he is great company and it makes the trip very enjoyable. I also go with the missus and family and solo too
Moral is - Do what you want to do, life is too short. Its not about being selfish or inconsiderate, we spend a lot of money on these trips and they need to be right. You get sh1t in everyday life, not on holiday.
diver
As the years went on, it became harder and harder to choose the right nights. I couldn't get it right and he would moan at the drop of a hat, "too crowded" "music dull" .............
He called me a control freak on the last trip, I was pretty hurt by that as i had tried to focus most of the holiday on us both enjoying it. It was like having yer bird or wife in tow and trying to keep them happy, I get enough of that in day to day life.
In the end, I booked without telling him, worried about it for a few months, then dropped the bomb. He wasn't actually that bothered, i think he had outgrown it, or the scene had outgrown him.
I travel with another dude now, he is great company and it makes the trip very enjoyable. I also go with the missus and family and solo too
Moral is - Do what you want to do, life is too short. Its not about being selfish or inconsiderate, we spend a lot of money on these trips and they need to be right. You get sh1t in everyday life, not on holiday.
diver
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MauroPicotto
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Brilliant post mate.
dj_raz1
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yeah i can imagine mate, as soon as the parties, constant drinking and everything else starts happening on holiday some of my mates aswell are just not the same person that they normally are so no way i would ever ask them to come to ibiza and ruin it for me
diver
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