Ig Has A Crush...

Dr Mick said:
Treat him mean. If he knows you're a cert then he'll keep looking around for other options and come back to you when he's ready. Don't let him control the situation.
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Yeah - I'm with Mick on this one - if he knows you are up for it and its a given that you are desperate for a date/one night stand, then he's still gonna try his luck with other laydees, worst case scenario - if he gets blown out by other's and he knows your waiting in the wings - he will be under the impression that your are his fall back, his booty call.....

I would go for the cool approach (but not so cool that you freeze him out)..
Keep him on his toes....

Your an attractive, blonde, older laydee with a wealth of experience under your belt ;) - let him think you are the catch of the century....
 
lol* awww thanks pups - yeah i shud be the one paying it cool, letting him do the chasing for a while....i just dont wanna freeze it all out and make him think im not interested. so how to play this game then? :?:
 
Ibiza-girlie said:
lol* awww thanks pups - yeah i shud be the one paying it cool, letting him do the chasing for a while....i just dont wanna freeze it all out and make him think im not interested. so how to play this game then? :?:
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Come on to him, tell him he's great etc till he's absolutely sure that you fancy him, then cool it off for a bit.

DON'T come on to other guys in front of him but be ambiguous about your friendships with other men.

If he asks 'So, what's up with you and John?' then you say 'Why do you want to know?'

He is now yours.
 
uhhh interesting! yeah.my ex was over to stay for a couple of days - shud i casually tell me friends whilst he´s eavesdropping or just standingthere? or wud that be going ott:?:
 
Ibiza-girlie said:
lol* awww thanks pups - yeah i shud be the one paying it cool, letting him do the chasing for a while....i just dont wanna freeze it all out and make him think im not interested. so how to play this game then? :?:
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:lol: :lol: actually pointless asking me to be honest - been with the same guy for 15 years - dont know what would happen if I was suddenly chucked back on the market - 8O 8O 8O 8O I think I would just become "the mad old woman up the street with all the dogs"
 
hahaha! no im sure u wont! your advice was actually great. i think i defo need to slow down the chatting and contacting him on MSN. He mite think i'm a stalker......:lol:
 
Ibiza-girlie said:
uhhh interesting! yeah.my ex was over to stay for a couple of days - shud i casually tell me friends whilst he´s eavesdropping or just standingthere? or wud that be going ott:?:
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Depends on your relationship with your ex. If you did, er, get a little nostalgic with him then just leave it out entirely. Actually, as your ex stayed over prob. best to do that anyway. The last thing any guy wants is to compete with past relationships.

Just mention you're going to meet "John" for a drink, or say that you think "Chris" is cute (but NOT that you want to bed him).

If the Swede fancies you that will drive him mental. If he doesn't care then it's a lost cause.
 
aye but guys can be quite nonchalant if they think the girl they like is out of their league (ie. story of my life)
 
Dr Mick said:
Just mention you're going to meet "John" for a drink, or say that you think "Chris" is cute (but NOT that you want to bed him).

If the Swede fancies you that will drive him mental. If he doesn't care then it's a lost cause.
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Don't you think all that game playing might just confuse the poor man??
 
fatphilb said:
aye but guys can be quite nonchalant if they think the girl they like is out of their league (ie. story of my life)
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That's why she has lay it on thick as well.

Holly G said:
Don't you think all that game playing might just confuse the poor man??
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I wouldn't call it game playing. Engineering situations purely to fcuk with his head would be counter-productive but being a bit ambiguous is fine IMO.
 
Holly G said:
Don't you think all that game playing might just confuse the poor man??
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lol bless his little 22 year old brain!

As a strong, mature, older woman you should be aggressive and blow his mind :lol: - make it so that he wants you FAR more than you want him. I'm thinking Grace Jones in James Bond :lol:
 
i dunno, but in my position right now if a hot scandinavian 30 year old woman laid it on thick with me id be right in there.

if he doesn't go for it, he's clearly gay.
 
zarbtron said:
lol bless his little 22 year old brain!

As a strong, mature, older woman you should be aggressive and blow his mind :lol: - make it so that he wants you FAR more than you want him. I'm thinking Grace Jones in James Bond :lol:
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If Grace Jones came on to me I'd be more likely to poo myself than get a stiffy.
 
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