How's Your Year Been? (2025)

Buckley

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Last year: https://forum.ibiza-spotlight.com/threads/hows-your-year-been-2024.81956/

Moi:

I'll add to my review of my year and edit as when I have time, but highlights/lowlights are:

Highs:

Suprise trip to Morroco to see in the Year, having discovered that our planned hotel in Mexico had gone Fyre-Festival, with refurb not finished and families camping in the lobby.

New main client - great Irish family owned contractor

Trips to Tenerife, Ireland, Ibiza, Mexico, Portugal and Majorca (the latter including a great hike with @stivi )

10 years ago my yearly round-up here: http://forum.ibiza-spotlight.com/threads/hows-your-year-been-2013.69979/ included my son's Autism diagnosis. A decade later, he's my hero, the person I wish the rest of the world was more like. I don't know if he'll ever live independently, I don't know if he'll ever hold down a job, but making life better for everyone you ever meet, just by being you, is worth more than that. I just just have to stay alive for as long as possible to look after him.

My younger boy is a real challenge. High IQ plus ADHD is a tricky path to navigate. He finds academic work piss easy, but is easily distracted and we are reguarly puting out fires with the school*, but I love that kid. For all the behavioural problems his lack of impulse control brings, he's funny, witty and loves us openly with all his heart. *Avid readers may recall last year''s update included him getting turfed out of a very good private school.

The first half of the footy season has been great too. Arsenal flying bar a couple of recent blips and the footy club I run is at it's strongest for a few years. Most importantly the 3rd XI I player manage has 8 current six formers from our old school in the squad, included 2 of my mates' sons, playing alongside their Dads. The re-build starts here! Trust the process!

Lows:

Dad's Parkinsons is really taking hold. Took him for his hospital appointment today and the doctor wouldn't sign for driving licence renewal. For the best but he's gutted.

Getting told to sign a permanent contract or f*** off with main client. (Not really a low - had a nice on holiday in Tenerife with the missus and choice of other assigmnents.

Ibiza trip was great, but slightly saddened that the rave is over for me. Had a night out and the truth was staring me in the face - not for me anymore.

August 11th 2025. Might get the date tattooed on me somewhere. 2 decades of @Louise_Sweeney0012 and then she was gone. Like the darkness at dawn. Some say there will be a second coming. It's the hope that kills you.

How was it for you?

E2A: It's all me, me, me isn't, it, my year's round-up? The world's been more and more of a binfire in recent years and I'm not sure my views on bits of it really matter that much. I'll vote when there's that, but I'm not sure me trapping off about really serious things that I don't have the bandwith to deal with in any active sense is anything other than attention seeking/virtue signalling. I try to be decent to people around me, do my but for my community, hopefully bring up kids who do the same. Don't be a twat, that's my activism.

E2A#2: Been off the booze most of the year again. Had a few in Ibiza, didn't feel too bad after but feel I might have had a better time without. Have one booze-event potentially planned next year, but generally don't miss it
 
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I must have about 12 years of HYYB to catch up but will try and find an hour or two to summarise soon

In the meantime - my only low (but could be considered a high) was a hip replacement back in May. It was severe arthritis which came as a total shock but am doing amazingly well. The surgeon said I'm the quickest and best recovery he's ever seen, which was encouraging. All perfectly good now but apparently I need my other one doing at some point. Should be a breeze if it goes well like the other.
 
Heart problems under control until now ( had a much too early attack 4 years ago , bypasses and a new heart valve ). Normal work and normal sports , only a little careful. Doc told me : No problem. Thats fine for me. Normal year : Working , sleeping , working , sleeping , weekend and repeat ...
And two times Ibiza. Bali is too far away and over. Dont want 24 hours traveling for holiday reasons.
 
I must have about 12 years of HYYB to catch up but will try and find an hour or two to summarise soon

In the meantime - my only low (but could be considered a high) was a hip replacement back in May. It was severe arthritis which came as a total shock but am doing amazingly well. The surgeon said I'm the quickest and best recovery he's ever seen, which was encouraging. All perfectly good now but apparently I need my other one doing at some point. Should be a breeze if it goes well like the other.

Hope you are well ol' mucker! Long time since our mid-space lunch break! Long time since you last popped back and I probably referenced that day out then too! :cool:
 
Hope you are well ol' mucker! Long time since our mid-space lunch break! Long time since you last popped back and I probably referenced that day out then too! :cool:

I'm great thanks, life is decent enough and still out and about for frequent knee's ups!

Ange and I often chuckle about that day we were at Space, she spent the afternoon down the beach with her trash mags and said "don't be bringing anybody back down the beach with you later" i.e. when you asked us to babysit your then GF for a few hours. Good times! ;)
 
An awful lot happened this year.. but ultimately we end 2025 living further up the Catalan coast with a new car, new lifestyle and new thinking. There wasn’t a lot of rock’n’roll and I’ve never felt more detached from the dying embers of dance culture.

I did enjoy our latest Ibiza trip, finally made it to Akasha although as ever the trip was too brief to do everything. I find holidays increasingly stressful and less spontaneous than ever. Ibiza still has its moments but you can’t help wondering if you’re buying into something that’s no longer there?

There were light moments too, especially the ones involving ‘gummies’ or gigs in Barcelona featuring Japanese psychedelic bands. Elsewhere, my trilingual newsletter gained new readers 2 years on, and was loads of fun to do. Above all, just loved doing stuff with my missus, mum, amigos, daytrips, bbqs, galleries, football nights and beyond. Mallorca was acers in the spring.

On a darker note, one of my friends killed himself in the Autumn and that was pretty tough. The less said about global politics the better… Re-read the ‘debates’ I had with people on here about Tr*mp et al. Tell me I got it wrong now. I dare you…

AI proved a pain in the backside workwise, but you just have to adapt. I’m spending a lot less time on socials, forums in general now. Too much reality alas. Wishing everyone a happy ‘26

Top 3 Tunes of the Year

Andy Bell - apple green ufo
Omar S - Featuring Omar S
The Smile/James Holden - Don't Get Me Started

Book : Ian Leslie - John & Paul
Film: One Battle After Another
 
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i'll do mine.
health - fine apart from my third bout of covid in june. mrs ste ended up in hospital, by ambulance, on oxygen and fluids with hers! had my shingles and flu jabs.
holidays - visited krakow, corfu, ibiza x 2, cotswolds, shropshire, vienna, and derbyshire.
life - generally good but our last ibiza cat left us forever last month, ending 40 years of continual petdom for us.
pastimes - i marked 60 years since watching my first match at st helens rfc in what was their most boring season i can ever recall. hopes are high for next season.
aging - renewed my bus pass and driving license again. but oft times at my back i hear time's winged charriot drawing near!
so in general, not a bad year for us, apart from the odd blip. i'm happy with it.
 
2025 was a good year. We settled in nicely after relocating to Florida, bought a house, and made it back to Ibiza. Lastly, I started a side hustle as an Amazon influencer 😂 and made a few bucks for the holidays. Routine was the theme and so the year flew by.

Dad's dementia is always in the background, but everyone was relatively healthy. Odd note: My boys caught whooping cough either in Ibiza or on the transit home via London.

Speaking of the trip to IBZ, overall it was too short given the long flight and transit, but I am grateful. I got a night out with the Mrs at Pikes for David Morales and was at Salinas for Jon Sa Trinxa's final set. Doubtful for a return in '26, so I will have to savor the memories until '27.

I hope everyone here had an awesome holiday season and will have a prosperous 2026!
 
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