Hello everyone..i need advise

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Rosie

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Hello my beloved party people..its been a year since my trip to ibiza and you have no idea how much i am dying to go back..
well this is my problem.. im suppost to make plans to go back to ibiza in 2006 however, at the present time my boyfriend and I are not doing to well together.... i love him and all but im ready to settle down and he is claiming that he is to yet no action or steps are being implemented. Its so hard because he is a good guy and my partner in crime when partyin yet i just cant deal with the rest... we were suppost to buy a home and he pulled out last minute... anytime i make plans with him he chooses to make his own plans in between and expects me to wait for him ... talks about going to school yet continues with the same job complainin that he hates it... i just want a man that I can feel can protect me and take care of me... i am very independent and organized and I am seeing he is not... what should I do... my trip cant happen without him cause then who will i go with ...I live in the states and most people arent into the house music and the partying like I am ... and i know that i shouldnt base a relationship on that but i dont wanna give up what i love to do either... help...please...im stuck...someone save me... :roll:
 
Well i got my answer on my own... i left him... i cant sacrafic myself when i know i can do better....
 
good for you Rosie, now you can book your 2006 trip to Ibiza, go on your own, and meet peeps out there, you wont be the only one doing it ;)
 
Sorry I dont fully understand. Was the problem that he didnt want to goto Ibiza? Or that he wasnt committing?
 
Well Nish the problem is that he shows no signs of committing and after 3 years of us together and six of us knowing one another I need to know where this is going... I just feel like I have to much to offer to settle for someone who is iffy...
It sucks i really wanna go back to ibiza but I cant stick around with him just to go on a trip that would bring bad Karma... and I am not one of those girls that uses anyone...
 
If you really want to go then go.

He'll either come with you or wait till you get back... hopefully..
 
yeah ...i know ..i just cant go on my own ...but hey im waiting for him to come by so i can end this... we just come from two completely different backgrounds...so ima have to find another partner in crime to go to ibiza with... it sucks but i rather be honest and end what i know will end eventually...
i wish i was in ibiza right now... i would have no worries in my head just the good music and my party people enjoying every minute.
 
Best of luck rosie. Just been through it myself and its rough.

It took us moving in together to decide that it would'nt work, so if your undecided its better to sort it now.

P.s not been to ibiza for 2 years and I am flying out on sunday :) :)
 
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