Not interested in pulling when I'm out at a deep house/techno night - there to maintain a respectable level of wastedness, dance the soles off my shoes (preferably alone) and enjoy the great music on some decent speakers with a few visuals for good measure. Proper party girls like amber-leaf and nycitybird most likely feel the same ? The music's just not focused on sexy encounters ..
If you really fancy someone there tho' you can always hook up in the friendly outside smoking area instead (best thing to come out of the smoking ban ? ..
) .. but doubt you'd find nycitybird there either by the sounds of it...
Try going somewhere where the sound is sexy and groovy - sexy chillout trax, latin vibes, salsa, samba etc. all seem to bring out the Summer lovin'. You do tend to find a lot of girls who are sexy and groovy where the music follows suit and if I'm dancing with a girl I sure prefer a sexy groove to a techno track ... Hot Latin girls tend to love hot latin tracks and most I've met also love a bit of loving ('nuff said ?) .. It's not like one of you pulls the other, it all kind of seems obvious and just happens.. Spanish girls too are
apparently often very open-minded towards British guys
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My heart is definitely going out to Hally tho' - you're setting a new record there
. Nothin' like a bit of loving in Ibiza .. even if it means compromising on the music front
if you're not meeting people in the day ? Don't think the Ginger thing is a big issue - if you're warm, relaxed, happy and clearly up for it, things start happening
!
.. still, I have a mate who's a bit of a nympho and seldom without his eye out for the main chance.. 5 minutes unsupervised in the West End after 6am and he'd got himself assaulted
.. this isn't Kansas anymore ...