30 yr old bi-girl...want to have fun w/other girls...

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beckyboo said:
Hi everyone...

Well, I must admit that it does sound like I'm playing w/doule standards here...but I'll explain myself. Although it does bother me to see other women being all over my boyfriend, it doesn't however bother me if we both are involved in this. In this I mean: if my bo and I are both w/a woman (same one of course), then the pleasure is doubled for both he and I. On the other hand,if the lady is only interested in him, then I feel left out and kinda uncomfortable...you know what I mean? Basically, I want to be in on the fun...and why not? I am his girl afterall. Besides, he's very lucky that I fancy having him join me w/another girl in some sexy fun. don't you agree?

Anyway, I hope that I was clear this time around. Trust me, this sort of relationship seems to be very uncommon...as all my boyfriend's friends think he's one lucky son-of-a-bit**.

oh, and in regards to my looks, to answer some of your concerns about me being a bit cocky...well, I appologize if I seem to give that impression. I really don't like talking about my looks precisely because I don't want to come across as being cocky. But on here, I thought that it would be somewhat helpful if I gave an idea to those interested about how I look. I never said I am beautiful, gorgeous, model-like...I am attractive. People look at me when I walk down the street, that is a fact...I'm not showing off in any way and I truly appologize if I cam across as being one. If only you knew what a sweet person I am (again, I'm not being a show-off...its what I'm being told over and over again by those who know me) and how much I love people and am a good friend to have....I am anything but cocky, I promise you that. But, you are intitiled to your opinions. And that is fine...afterall, I maybe good looking to one but not to another...that is human nature, and I respect that.

Anyhow, for those who wish to see my pic, I'll be more than happy to send one...I don't have one online but I can send a personal one to anyone's e-mail if they want. I'm trying to find a place to put it online for free...any suggestions?

Again, thank you all for sharing your comments w/me.
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AMEN
 
What tha....

yeah robbie...what's up with the explicit sexual act thing huh? thanks for sharing what you like to do but who asked really??? anyway, would you drop it with the looks already!!! was I not clear that I don't like to talk about this too much (read my previous message)???

Besides, the reason I'm on the message board is because I have never been to Ibiza or Europe for that matter and I'm trying to familiarize myself a bit....isn't that what the board is for afterall??? and no, my boyfriend doesn't mind anything I do...and I don't want to do anything without him either!

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beckyboo said:
yeah robbie...what's up with the explicit sexual act thing huh? thanks for sharing what you like to do but who asked really??? anyway, would you drop it with the looks already!!! was I not clear that I don't like to talk about this too much (read my previous message)???

Besides, the reason I'm on the message board is because I have never been to Ibiza or Europe for that matter and I'm trying to familiarize myself a bit....isn't that what the board is for afterall??? and no, my boyfriend doesn't mind anything I do...and I don't want to do anything without him either!

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Thats my point, who asked what you look like or what your sexual preferences are? If I came on here and said "I'm a hetrosexual 26 year old and I'm coming to Ibiza with my girlfriend", its just a load of information people don't need to know and you'd probably think I was pretty lame.

Take it easy woman anyway, your very highly strung for someone who is so laid back about their sexuality. Bascically I don't think many people give a shit what you look like, it goes a bit deeper than that with some people. They probably wanna know how much fun you are to be with not what you look like or you can do in the bedroom.
 
jesus help!

awrrrright Robbie...you made ur point and I made mine. Are we equal now?

and people, please, don't turn this thread into something full of personal attacks....we all mean well, I know that...so lets all chill-out and enjoy the forums by trying to help each other answer some mysteries...ok?

honestly, I don't know what to say...I like the forum but in a way I'm afraid to ask anymore questions because so many people tend to be either critical or sarcastic of what others write...I don't enjoy this...it makes me answer in ways that are out of my nature...it is quite frustrating.
 
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beckyboo said:
awrrrright Robbie...you made ur point and I made mine. Are we equal now?

and people, please, don't turn this thread into something full of personal attacks....we all mean well, I know that...so lets all chill-out and enjoy the forums by trying to help each other answer some mysteries...ok?

honestly, I don't know what to say...I like the forum but in a way I'm afraid to ask anymore questions because so many people tend to be either critical or sarcastic of what others write...I don't enjoy this...it makes me answer in ways that are out of my nature...it is quite frustrating.
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We were always equal anyway ;)

It's totally cool anyway, I only said what my thoughts were, they were never meant to be offensive, your no different to me, we all wanna have a good time.

Feel free to say whay you want to say, I do ;)
 
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beckyboo said:
awrrrright Robbie...you made ur point and I made mine. Are we equal now?

and people, please, don't turn this thread into something full of personal attacks....we all mean well, I know that...so lets all chill-out and enjoy the forums by trying to help each other answer some mysteries...ok?

honestly, I don't know what to say...I like the forum but in a way I'm afraid to ask anymore questions because so many people tend to be either critical or sarcastic of what others write...I don't enjoy this...it makes me answer in ways that are out of my nature...it is quite frustrating.
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mate maybe its a cultural difference but this has really done my head in...
and my impression of you is that are very full of yourself, very up your own arse and a little bit mad in the head,....

this is a site about the party capital of the world, great clubs music beaches parties food etc etc
there is so much discussed on here
and yes a lot of it is proppa cack
and yes stupid things are said...

but you have come on here and

on one you board said... i dont like it when other girls flirt with my bf... oh and by the way he isnt just hot he is all that and a box of biscuits!!!

then you say on another board how you wanna meet up with hot birds to get dirty with you and your bf...
oh and btw you too are a looker!!!

mate what about the best parties, you coulda asked that question
??
the best beaches?
the best choons?
the worst goons?
the best sunset spot?
the best food?

or even where to have your lovely hair done

BUT no for you its just about the cheap side, the jelousy, the insecurity
what are you like really

i think that you should go on holiday to Germany..
now i hope you dont think i am being racist here But the reason i suggest germany is that:

i have heard that they are big into swinging
and

if you look at a Herman, man or woment, they have this very distinct look of intensity...

recon you could EASILY find some one suitable in one of those parlours to give the both of you a fantastic seeing to!!

i might be sticking my neck out here and i am might be completely wrong but i am thinking that you might be one of those peeps who stand around posing like Prince Naseem Hamed on the dancefloor when other peeps are trying to dance

i am thinking you need to be a bit more normal
and believe me, i never thought i would say that to some one
GET A GRIP
 
i find this odd that everyones getting so highly strung over a question becky asked?
if it offends you why not NOT post in it?
if you cant answer it dont...if you can then do.. :roll:
 
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beckyboo said:
Anyway, I hope that I was clear this time around. Trust me, this sort of relationship seems to be very uncommon...as all my boyfriend's friends think he's one lucky son-of-a-bit**.
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All I can say is, I really hope he appreciates you.
I'm going to go cry about my misfortune in life now.
 
Elrobbie & Discodude - it takes all sorts, leave the girl alone! Message boards attract all kinds of people from all over the world, that's the whole point; to meet, ask, flaunt, flirt, ask advice, whatever... I don't think she needs an attack. Personally I think it'd be a bit boring if everyone were the same, asking the same questions, being the same 'careful' poster, worried that they might offend or annoy.

And anyway Elrobbie, with regards to your comment:

Elrobbie said:
One thing that gets me though, is if your so good looking, have you got the personality to go with it, cause if you have, I'm a bit confused as to why you would need a message board to meet people?
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All the girls make a mental note not to bother meeting up with this guy then, if that's what thinks a message boards for; pulling tools for the ugly!!
:lol:

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Elrobbie said:
Personally, I would be cool about it, as long as I was offered to join in at some point, preferably when your giving her oral and I could take you from behind, or her giving you oral, as thats something I like to do.
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You're as bad as her!! :lol:
 
I am thrown to say: get a life ppeps (says the lady who has posted 10.000 posts here :oops: so note the irony) but PLEASE let Becky ask whatever she likes, we all ask weird q´s here and so what btw, anyhow.
Arent girlies allowed to say that they think they´re attractive? why are we all allowed to pick on ourselves but never tell others about our NICE features? its just wrong.

I wanna make a post stating "state 3 things u like about yourself".
.....its sad its like that

well anyway
 
forget the whole thing...

you know...every night before I go to bed, I check my messages on Ibiza's chat board. And quite honestly, I've been feeling really down lately from all the comments I've been getting. I swear to you all, I have lost all enthusisasm I had for that trip. I really don't feel excited about it anymore. And I no longer want to feel this way . I'm asking you all to please drop the subject as I have no interest in it anymore.

Regardless, thank you all for your contributions.

Becky.
 
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beckyboo said:
you know...every night before I go to bed, I check my messages on Ibiza's chat board. And quite honestly, I've been feeling really down lately from all the comments I've been getting. I swear to you all, I have lost all enthusisasm I had for that trip. I really don't feel excited about it anymore. And I no longer want to feel this way . I'm asking you all to please drop the subject as I have no interest in it anymore.

Regardless, thank you all for your contributions.

Becky.
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Its cool Becky, sorry if I offended you in any way, I'm entitled to speak my mind, just like anyone, but I do believe comments on message boards shouldn't be taken too seriously.

What I find funny is the amount of righteous people writing things like, 'let Becky say/ask what she wants', yet I am just saying/asking what I want, whats the difference, I'm entitled to an opinion. Or saying how not everyone's is the same etc etc, well thanks for the lesson in life, I really thought there were just millions of clones all over the world :lol: ;) Or people say how can you be so touchy about Becky's comments, well how can any of you be so touchy about my comments?

Funkster100 - Think you got the wrong end of the the stick mate, I meant its shallow to think that people would only want to meet you cause you say were good looking.
 
i too am very very sorry
i hate being upset and thus it would be outragous and evil of me to not be ashamed and sad when i upset others
it was a silly outburst that got out of hand
and again i apologise
i hope you have a wonderful holiday that confirms and deepens the special love you and your boyfriend have.....

on a slightly selfish note... if you do find what you are looking for would you be so kind as to post a couple of pics

keep it real
 
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