Gparsons. This is not about being judgemental. The reason I didn't reply or look you up on Facebook is simple:
What I'm here to do is to see if people on spotlight have similar Ibiza plans to myself, who might like to meet up when there. What I'm not here to do is to be told that I need to swap details with someone on Facebook, to be told what parties to go to, how to (maybe) get on guestlists, what car parks to meet in and how to meet women. On that, I don't know if you've noticed, but Ibiza isn't exactly short of good looking women. You never have to look far. I'm no professional, but in my experience the best way of getting to know one (or more) of them is by talking to them. I've always found people in Ibiza to be friendly and open minded. Spotlight is all about sharing experiences and knowledge, so there's my bit.
I've been to Ibiza enough times to know how I want my holiday to go, and that doesn't involve planning every waking second. I've stated my plans, and if anyone plans to go to the same parties, then it makes sense to swap details and try to arrange something. If not, then I'll just go anyway and meet people along the way. I recommend you do the same.
Enjoy the rest of your holiday.