nitemare ex's ??

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Minxy

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morning everyone
im on a real downer today - which isnt like me at all - i usually always manage to muster some positive vibes, and even when situations are ****, i always try and look for the good in them and the lesson in it so i can learn and move forward and grow

but this morning - im really angry and disappointed
my ex is proving a nightmare and has been since i kicked him out in jan
there were lots of reasons why it all fell apart - and i tried for a year to get it on track but it wasnt to be
anyhow since we split he has been very annoying indeed to the point of harrassing me with texts, the police and solicitors have been involved

well he pulled another blinder yest - by text - using totally inappropriate content, infact just about the lowest of low to be honest, and its totally pissed me off
i havent mentioned it to any of my family or anything as it will upset them too much
so instead im on ere telling a load of strangers so i can get it off my chest!
sorry everyone

now i have to decide am i going to press charges for harrasement?
he has already been cautioned by the police and had 2letters from solicitor requesting he does not contact me

what should i do?
has anyone else been in this situation? what did you do?
i am stil in shock that its come to this realy
im best mates with most of my ex's so to be in this situation with such hostility just feels awful
 
oh dear.

:(

soz to hear, cant offer any advice apart from move away and start new life... but why should you!
 
Hi Minxy.

First of all, chin up! Can't let this loser get you down no matter how hard he tries.

Secondly, would it be possible to change your phone number? Seems like the first step in putting yourself out of reach.

And finally, if it's not too much hassle so as to disrupt your life, press charges! Sounds like he deserves a slap from the long arm of the law!
 
I split up with a girl only recently, and she had that same problem, the ex just caused so many problems between me and her.

You should go ahead, and issue a writ or something, perhaps just to scare him, hes not lisenting to soliciters letters or anything, because hes calling your bluff thinking that you will not take the action further.

Other then that, I can not help, but your plight has shades of my recent troubles.
 
I can only imagine he is desparate, and ultimately very sad!!

Try and rise above, and as you've said, look forward, and be positive!!

Keep any texts or other info, as a record!! Hopefully you wont need to use it, but if you do, there is substance to any case!!

Good luck, and chin up!!
 
If it's mainly texts then change your number and warn all your mates not to give it to him.

Terrible situation - poor bloke is probably heartbroken but it doesn't give him the right to upset you.

Bad break ups are terrible but things will be better over time.
 
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