I have a hopeless crush...

Ibiza-girlie

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...om this guy.
all things are talking against anything happening,
1. we work together on the same work-project and have to remain pro´
2. he´s based in the UK and I´m in Scandinavia
3. He just broke it off with his gfriend whom he lived with (so we´re in the same boat really)
4. It´s basically not going to happend as we only see eachother 3-4 times a year but when we do there´s this slight flirting....

But:
He mails me a lot about the breakup, and texts me a LOT calling me pretty, sweety, ect ect....mails me for hours back and forth, Texts me sometimes late when he´s out but maybe I´m putting too much into this?
I definately feel an interest but he´s also mentioned that he´s ready "for the ladies", so that outrules me? I´m confuuuuused.

would a guy mail about private matters and let me know he´s single again, if we´re just supposed to be in a "professional" relationship? You guys need to tell me, wheither this is normal or not. I didnt announce to him when I got separated. But he somehow decided to tell me, he´s on the market again.

I dunno...I´m going to see him in a week and I have no idea what to expect, nor do I think something would happend. But I desperately want it to. Tell me what to do, and am I just overenterpreting things? :P :?: :oops: 8O
 
He's definitely interested.

I can't say if he's interested in a short fling or a relationship, but those are sure signs of some kind of unprofessional interest!
 
well I think he´s curious for sure....but I´d just like to know If I could make a move and suceed cause he´s HOT as hell and really sweet too!
 
Curiousity is how any relationship, whether it's a fling or long-term, gets started. :D

With the amount of attention he's been giving, it doesn't sound like you'll need to make much of a move. You'd just need to be in the right circumstances, of course. It sounds to me like it all you'd have to do is subtley make it clear that you're interested too.
 
Definately interested dahling.

Ah. Its the other way around now. I remember when you gave me some good advice about matters like this in the past ;) x
 
When he mentions "the ladies", he's probably not being serious... probably only trying to see if you react and if you seem a little jealous.

I think he sounds really interested...

:D
 
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!
 
mikkak said:
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!
Mikkak? Shy?? I would have never thought so! ;)
(is that why you never posted a picture!?)
 
Ibiza-girlie said:
I dunno...I´m going to see him in a week and I have no idea what to expect, nor do I think something would happend. But I desperately want it to. Tell me what to do, and am I just overenterpreting things? :P :?: :oops: 8O

When you go to see him, I'd shave your legs just in case ;)
 
Morbyd said:
Mikkak? Shy?? I would have never thought so! ;)
(is that why you never posted a picture!?)


In the spanish forum we think she is a big fat old he in a sweaty little room in the middle of the spanish estepa 8O :lol: ;)
 
Morbyd said:
mikkak said:
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!
Mikkak? Shy?? I would have never thought so! ;)
(is that why you never posted a picture!?)

Yessss, I am :D :D :D ask my friendss ;)

Silvia wrote:
Morbyd wrote:

Mikkak? Shy?? I would have never thought so! Wink
(is that why you never posted a picture!?)



In the spanish forum we think she is a big fat old he in a sweaty little room in the middle of the spanish estepa Shocked Laugh out Loud

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
mikkak said:
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!

i always had you down as a bloke :oops:
 
NITEFLY said:
mikkak said:
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!

i always had you down as a bloke :oops:

Too easy Nitey, with recent comments on you orientation! :P
 
NITEFLY said:
mikkak said:
Hey I-G :D
I think he is interested,if I was you I would wait untill you see him and how he reacts. By the way I am a very shy girl and never move so maybe you should relay in what action people thinks .Wathever, good luck!!!

i always had you down as a bloke :oops:


oOOOPS, I am a girl!!! :idea: :idea: but I understand you because for months I though Drew was a girl. :D :D :D
 
Your situation sounds like he can only be a f**k buddy. Long distance relationships dont work without one person sacrificing an awful lot, and that creates long term problems even if they do.
 
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