theres no doubt that this forum is an absolute goldmine of information for those willing to dig through and find the good stuff, certainly enhances an ibiza trip going armed with a load of info about how to spend your time/money.
as for the btchin, well, can't say this board doesn't have any. just like any public forum really, opinions will colide. some seem to invite the abuse more than others though (i also find people who are overly friendly to the extreme just as irritating but then maybe thats a character flaw of mine), but in the main its a decent lot here.
i am rather annoyed tha the grooming has been curtailed with the profile footprints. guess i'll just be spending more time grooming on bebo now.