good sex vs. good conversation

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Conrado

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Imagine this:

you've just met someone you might like, let's call him/her Subject A. He/she is not that bright, and the talk is not that goo, but still, you go out with him/her and go back home to have sex. You have the best sex ever.

you've just met someone you might like, let's call him/her Subject B. He/she is very bright, intelligent, and the talk is the best ever, you go out with him/her and go back home to have sex. You have the worst sex ever.

If you were to keep one of the subjects as a boyfriend/girlfriend, who would you choose?
 
Subject B for sure... sex is something that can be improved upon with a little, um... practice ;) Plus for me, I have to be able to connect with someone on levels other than sex, like conversationally, emotionally, intelligence wise etc.... in order to really enjoy myself in bed. Subject A would be a blast for a while, then it would get old and way annoying... I wouldn't even be attracted anymore.
 
Go out with B and keep A on the side for a regular shag :lol:

No I couldn't do either, you should never settle for anything less than the full package ;)
 
My mom always said, when looking for a partner for life:
- you should find an intelligent man
- you should find a rich man
- you should find a great lover
- you should find someone that supports you no matter what.

Above all, it's very important that the four of them never meet.
 
shallow people 8O
ne way what happened 2 subjects C & D
this is why were gonna Ibiza aint it :lol:
or is that just me :oops:
 
If they don't physically repulse you too much to go back again, I would try 2nd time lucky with Subject B.
They're intelligent enough to learn.
I love a challenge, been there done that :D
 
I can say that there is nothing worse to me then a lovely lady that can screw like a bunny and has an IQ equal to one! I've found truly Intelligent people seem to have the knack for mind blowing sex anyway. Sex starts with the organ between your ears, not the one between your legs!
 
I love how everyon'e so altruistic :lol:

Yes, having someone like Mr/Ms B is great. Someone to talk to on some intelligent level.

BUT, after a few years you run out of things to talk about (and/or get tired of talking) and then you'll wish you had picked someone like Mr/Ms A.

Trust me on this one ;)
 
If your settling for second best, then your going to get second best... besides, a little smarts goes a long way in the bedroom. Anyone up for a few games? I'll show you what I mean. I need some candles, wine, ice cubes, four ties and three tic tacs. :twisted:
 
Dinkle said:
If your settling for second best, then your going to get second best... besides, a little smarts goes a long way in the bedroom.
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This is wrong.... and it's a misconception that's been voiced by a lot of people in this topic.

If they're bad in bed, it doesn't matter how smart a person is, it's not going to change. Forget about it!

Even worse, smart people will undoubtedly get offended if you try to point out that there's room for improvement. And don't tell me that they won't if they have the right attitude about the relationship - maybe they will act like they aren't offended but in reality they are and they're just not telling you.
 
I'd choose subject C: Highly intelligent, great conversation and good in bed *

* but not so good that you 'suspect she works in the industry - good'. Ideally, someone eager and willing to learn.

;)
 
your view of sex is that either your good at it or your not. This means that the first time out the gate, your great or you stink. I'm pretty sure most would look at thier first time having sex, and the way they do now, and say there has been a lot of improvement (except me; I really was that good my first time up to bat ;) ) No one is naturally good at anything. What appears to be natural talent one will find hard work and dedication to become good. So regardless it's sports, science, or the sweet sport of the bedroom, some education, practice and improvment in technique is required (unless your me; I'm really that good ;) )
 
Morning Morning!! Happy Friday :D

Can I have Boy B for weekends and Boy A for weekdays please? :lol:


Conrado said:
My mom always said, when looking for a partner for life:
- you should find an intelligent man
- you should find a rich man
- you should find a great lover
- you should find someone that supports you no matter what.

Above all, it's very important that the four of them never meet.
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Your mum is a very wise lady :lol: ;)
 
Dinkle said:
your view of sex is that either your good at it or your not. This means that the first time out the gate, your great or you stink. I'm pretty sure most would look at thier first time having sex, and the way they do now, and say there has been a lot of improvement (except me; I really was that good my first time up to bat ;) ) No one is naturally good at anything. What appears to be natural talent one will find hard work and dedication to become good. So regardless it's sports, science, or the sweet sport of the bedroom, some education, practice and improvment in technique is required (unless your me; I'm really that good ;) )
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I'm not saying that people absolutely can't get better at it. I certainly hope I have since my first time!

But there are things that go into it - energy level, generosity, committment, inherent level of enjoyment, stamina, and perhaps some natural ability (oh... and maybe size? :lol: ). Some of these things can change, but often not all, and they're usually not affected by how smart a person is.
 
Hey size?!?! I'm six feet once ince wear a size twelve shoe (yes thats pretty big) and I'm black!! Know what that means? I wear really big socks and I have to wear bright clothes at the club so my friends can find me!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted: 8O . But seriously, my socks are really big :lol: :lol: But your right morbyd... all those things are needed.... but with those, if technique is off a little, well a little guidance always works. I tend to follow the moan and shiver levels. The louder the moans, the more she quivering, the cloeser to the "spot' I must be and I must be doing something right. One question for the ladies: You like a guy shaved "down there" or keep the jungle growing?
 
I'm having B.

Good sex is two a penny and I'm a firm believer that connecting with like minds is much more rewarding than obsessing over fit bodies.

:D

Besides, we all know I'm sh!t in bed anyway after my recent comments about music. :oops:
 
Robder said:
Good sex is two a penny and I'm a firm believer that connecting with like minds is much more rewarding than obsessing over fit bodies.
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:arrow: Robder = D_____ V_______ B______ or perfect husband :?:

I just can't decide :lol: ;)
 
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