Anyone ever done one to Ibiza without the mrs knowing?

OllieNotts

OllieNotts

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I've booked a few days off, flight prices and hotel look good enough price for me to hide only thinking 2-3 days and I have the benefit of working for a company that goes to Europe....I've already told her I'm on stand by :D
Can't stand the thought of not being there ffs ha ha.
 
Not before, but I've already been twice this year and planning amnesia plus space closing later. We are taking kids away in sept so I know right now the answer would be no.
I know it's not perfect situation but I don't think she understands how much I need it! :D
She wouldn't know I'm gone for 2-3 days because of my job anyway, but trying to figure out if it's just me that's f***ed up or if it happens to anyone else where they'll do whatever necessary to get back to Ibiza? Lol
 
Nothing is brilliant till it's accomplished, hotels looking pricey compared to flights in figuretas at a second glance....May have to approach with flexibility.
 
As you know ... I used to make a lifestyle out of it :spank: :D

Make sure you've loaded that prepaid visa card well ahead of time with plenty so no telltale bank transactions which might come to light later ... and NO fb activity or she'll find out. The worst thing is keeping quiet about it when you're back home .... sets you up for all sorts of conflicts lol.
 
I've already got things planned paid for by other means and you know the reason I need to stay that side of the island ffs I can't resist :D I know it's wrong but it's one of those situations that I'll regret not finding out if I let the opportunity pass.....
Time to set up that expensive therapy group ha ha.
 
in this case the next question has to be how bad will her reaction be when she finds out (because it's likely she will somehow). while a few girls might take it easy, I'm a 100% certain that for other ladies it might almost present a reason to break up. I personally wouldn't do it, simply because the core of it (lying) just isn't right. I very much understand the 'need' to simply go and do it - but then have the balls and tell her beforehand instead of cleaning up the mess afterwards.

always up for a beer if you do make it!
 
As good as it seems now, it will come back to bite you on the arse!! You know that! lol

I'd be straight up. My Missus let me go back for four days on my own last year only six days after we'd finished two weeks!!

If you do go for it, best of luck brother!! Let us know how it goes!
 
I was kind of 'seeing someone' at one point and escaped to Ibiza on my own for a week without letting on, not something I'm proud of looking back, especially as I know I should have made more of an effort with her. :spank:
 
Im in the same boat this year. I need to go, can afford to go, have got the holidays to go but missus thinks my one trip is enough?
 
Crazy thing is I find a few days away from my wife actually brings us closer together. Gives me a chance to blow off a bit of steam without getting moaned at and I end up missing her towards the end and come home wanting to spend time with her. Trying to get her to see it that way is a different story.

Your definitely not alone on this though. There's already a few people replied saying they are in the same boat and I have a least 2 mates who have ended relationships off the back of not having that freedom to go. The problem for them though was that they tried hiding it. Eventually it all goes wrong. Ive always been honest with my wife when I want to go away and so far so good. She doesnt always understand it but she knows its something I did before her so she doesnt want to be the reason I stop doing something I love so much. Especially when its just few days out the year.
 
Fancy going 20th July? Leibing and vath at cocoon, cox and corolla at space my underpants shrunk when I read the calendar :D :D
deepseadiver said:
Im in the same boat this year. I need to go, can afford to go, have got the holidays to go but missus thinks my one trip is enough?
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The main problem I have with being up-front is that the minute they find out you've done it they want the same for themselves, plus a load more to compensate for you "being selfish". Before you know where you are you've had to find twice as much again to pay for "theirs" as well as your own (because of course you have to make things up to them as well as matching too). It's cost me tens of thousands in "compensation" over the last few years lol.
 
kimajy said:
The main problem I have with being up-front is that the minute they find out you've done it they want the same for themselves, plus a load more to compensate for you "being selfish". Before you know where you are you've had to find twice as much again to pay for "theirs" as well as your own (because of course you have to make things up to them as well as matching too). It's cost me tens of thousands in "compensation" over the last few years lol.
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That is spot on actually! I get away with my one trip a year. Anything over that and I end up paying for her to have a get away as well. Maybe slipping off is the answer. The problem is once you get it in your head you want to go then you have to make it happen. Its not easy accepting that actually its probably not possible.

If you think you can hide it and you have a get out with the work travel excuse then those line ups look worth it
 
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