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sexki11en said:
It would be great if it was as simple as him not wanting to be with my anymore. But its so hard to walk away when I know neither of us wants that
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Sounds familiar :? If you have already given him a chance to make amends and its not worked out, then clear out the closet and let him see that you have done so-otherwise you'll just be a doormat, hoping...waiting...wasting your life and energy on someone selfish who may not reciprocate.
 
Hey Kitten. I concur with everyone who says let him go. I'll differ from others in saying that I think I've been in his position and you're better off getting out now.

I will disagree with the others about the gifts, photos, etc. Put them in a box and keep them in storage somewhere. They'll be good memories somewhere down the road.
 
Chapter closed and a new one open.......Hope things only get better for you now :D
 
sexki11en said:
Its too late. They're gone and so has he :cry:
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If you can get through this part... this first few weeks, when you'll have to overcome the loneliness, then you will be much better off. You've only got to be strong for a little bit and, whatever you do, don't give in to the temptation to reunite.

Then, you'll find someone better. Might sound cheesy now, but it's definitely true.
 
Kitten girl,

I agree with everyone as well about bailing out. Though I don't know you personally, you seem like a sweetheart who is witty, smart and fun... don't SETTLE. Who needs someone who can't "decide" if they want to be with you?! How insulting is that??? We all need to be with someone who sees it as the ultimate PLEASURE and PRIVILEGE to be with us. :) Seriously. Anything less is a waste of time. Don't give in to his "I miss you baby" BS either.

Now for the items... I would do what Morbyd says and tuck them away in a box somewhere out of sight. Then promise yourself you won't go fetch the box and wallow in your miseries. The only reason why I am saying this is because of my parent's story. My parents dated for six months in high school, then suddenly my playa-ho dad decides he doesn't want to be with moms just out of the blue (young and stupid. :roll: ) My mom was heart broken but she had saved all the mementos. Five years down the line they saw each other randomly at a homecoming party and fell back in love instantly. Today, and 34 years later, they are one of the happiest couples I know. My mom says she almost burned the box several times out of anger, but was so happy she didn't.

I don't see what the harm is in a small box of items hidden from sight. And if you feel like it would be cathartic, then BY ALL MEANS invite the girls over, make margaritas, and have a nice little BONFIRE. :D

Hang in there sweets... lots of us have been there and it stinks for a lil while. Be strong!!! -xoxo PG79 :D
 
Thanks guys.
Well, we had all the dramas last night after he went. He had the cheek to call my mate saying he thinks i was gonna do something stupid! 8O Cue my worried mate on my doorstep at 11pm with her poor husband in tow, who was so embarrassed and didnt know what the hell to do apart from shove a fag in my gob :lol: Then the phonecalls started :roll: Of course I ignored them so, 9 missed calls on my mob and 7 on my housephone later he calls my mate again who was instructed to say she hadnt got hold of me :lol: 1am after she'd left she called to say he was threatening to call the police if I didnt answer! Have had 2 missed calls this morning - the funker woke me up at 8am :evil:
Ya think he's suffered enough yet? :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted:
 
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