need advice....ibiza trip under threat!

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staycool

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Would really appreciate some advice on this one...
Basically I really (as in really, really, really) wanna head over to Ibiza again this summer. Myself and my girlfriend had planned to go with a few others but that plan has fallen apart. Personally I thing (I know) we would have a fantastic time, just the two of us but she would kinda like a crowd to go. Also, she feels a bit like 'its been done so lets do something else' but I'm like 'eh, no, lets do ibiza again'
I understand her thinking (about wanting to go with a few orthers) but at the end of the day I wanna go for the music, the atmosphere and experience it all with her. Now she's talking about not going at all and I'm the total opposite... if I do nothing else this year then fine... I just wanna go there.
Any advice appreciated.... head is a bit melted by this :cry:
 
ooo tricky one, normally its the bloke that wants the mates to go and the girl to have you all to herself. Im afriad it looks like your going to have to compromise, if you want to go that badly then surely it woundnt matter who went along with you.
 
Its not that I want to have her to myself at all - I would prefer if the whole group went too but they can't. That doesn't mean that we can't go anyway but she seems to think we shouldn't go because they can't...
 
staycool said:
Its not that I want to have her to myself at all - I would prefer if the whole group went too but they can't. That doesn't mean that we can't go anyway but she seems to think we shouldn't go because they can't...
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Suggest doing what Monsoir Buckley is doing - go for a mad weekend, then spend the rest of the week having a romantic time around the island, and formentera..
 
Me and Mr PL usually go by ourselves everytime and we have a brilliant time - no one else to worry about - just yourselves, we usually end up talking to randoms in the clubs anyway - end up at all sorts of places after kicking out time - just persuade her to go for a week (tell her it will be dead romantic just the two of you - sell it to her!!!!)
 
I totally agree with you PL, we would meet loads of people over there and we can suit ourselves. I suppose the thing is that I love the music, absolutely love it and while she likes it too she would take or leave it, so her desire to go isn't as strong...especially without the others. I know she would love it but it's the selling of it thats the difficult!
Good suggestion too Mark Sun... that might be an option...
 
Mark Sun said:
staycool said:
Its not that I want to have her to myself at all - I would prefer if the whole group went too but they can't. That doesn't mean that we can't go anyway but she seems to think we shouldn't go because they can't...
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Suggest doing what Monsoir Buckley is doing - go for a mad weekend, then spend the rest of the week having a romantic time around the island, and formentera..
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That's the script. Any bets on the improvished version in reality? ;) :lol:
 
Thats the thing! the plan (at least how it will be sold) will be for the couple of nights out and a couple of quiet romantic ones.... but in fairness... the temptation to get to the clubs will be unbearable!!
 
tell her how it would, yes be great to go with mates but we can have the best holiday of our lives as a couple on our ibiza adventure. why dont ya go on the 18-30 website and make some mates (couples etc) to meet up with when ya get out there. say your trying. id be concerned personally if she needs her mates to be there to have good hol, yet when its just the two of you - shes abandoning the whole idea...wierd....go on try her a bit
 
I know exactly where you're coming from coz the same thing happened to us this year! We've just come to accept that it's very rare for a group of friends to be able to go away together as our situations change - so we just thought "sod it!" and booked for Ibiza as a couple. We've spent a week there (our friends went home after the first week) as a couple 2 years ago and had a great time - went for walks during the day and partied at night.

Going with friends does seem like the most attractive option but we didn't miss them at all last time, which really tells you something! :D
 
Going any other place it wouldn't be a problem but I suppose with the all day/all night partying in ibiza she feels that having a few of our mates around would be good... which it would in a way cause they're a great laugh but at the same time I'm grand with just the two of us going cause its the music, atmosphere, other people who make it what it is...regardless of if the others are there or not...
 
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